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I'm an enabler doormat

Posted by doormat at May 26, 2012
Tags: 2012 May  Relationship

I been with my guy for 8 years. I have more or less supported the household the entire time we have been together. He has been in and out of jobs and when he is employed spends his money on god knows what...well now I know what. A few years ago he admitted to cocaine use, shoud have seen the writing on the wall. The mood swings, erratic behaviour, verbal abuse. I should have left but I'm such a door mat. He promised to change and was actually doing well, thea few days ago admitted he was using again. I am such a doormat. I gave an ultimatum, but I'm such a spineless pushover, he will probably continue to mooch off me and do what he likes for as long as I let him. Now I just distract myself with hobbies and try to have a life otherwise, but I know my life could be so much betterthan this.


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By anonymous at 27,May,12 08:30

Dump him so he takes some responsibility for himself.

By anonymous at 27,May,12 10:13

GTFO while you are still young enough to save yourself. Don't know if you have kids with this loser, but I hope not. Seriously, the first step to recovery is admitting you have a problem. You have already admitted your issues, so do something about them while you have the chance. Good luck!

By anonymous at 27,May,12 19:38

Yes you are a doormat. You are flatter than a doormat for putting up with this for so long. DUMP HIM. Leave him now. He will not change for you. Ever. And yes your life can be MUCH better than it is.

By anonymous at 28,May,12 11:20

he's neither mr right or mr right now. when it's me wrong it can't be any clearer.

By anonymous at 20,Aug,12 02:21

Girls and women suck. Boys and men suck. Humanity is a fucking tragedy a lost cause and utterly hopeless. Thats why Im misanthropic misogynistic and pessimistic and thats one big reason why my religious faith has weakened. Humanity is a huge fuck up as is nature and the natural world. So we have a hell on earth.

By anonymous at 01,Sep,12 23:32

And my final comment to all you asswipes who harassed me is FUCK YOU ASSHOLES.

By anonymous at 04,Sep,12 20:45

Suck it up, cunt!!

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