My boyfriend watches porn contantly. I hate porn, I think it's gross. I don't understand how anyone could actually make those movies. Sometimes I resent the women he watches even though he insists he was like that before he met me and his addiction has nothing to do with me. I feel like I am second to his addiction. He has also asked me to have sex with him and another man on numerous occasions which I refuse to do. Other than sex, we get along ok which is why I stay with him. We agree on politics, religion, we like the same music and television. He also does help me with financial support and seems to care for my children who are grown and living on their own. | |
Yes males step on each other, it’s to create a social hierarchy, and it was a necessary trait in our evolution, and there is a good deal of unnecessary “stepping” that is a result of a lack of morals today. I don’t think there is a reason to think that women are any less cruel since they have many of their own, different, ways to manipulate people and it is a bit like comparing apples to oranges. By the way you used the ill-defined word succeed I think you have more thinking to do on this issue. Since it’s a little past due I will respond to the original post now.
Alice, in my opinion, people that make porn videos are morally depraved and if your boyfriend is obsessively watching them then he is similarly perverted. If he has an addiction though porn is simply the outlet for his psychological problems and is a symptom for something like depression or something else, you can try to help him overcome it, but people with addictions do not always break out of them, or want to, it’s up to you how much you think this guy or relationship is worth.
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