I'm in my 50's, female, married, 2 grown children.
Husband lost his job 6 years ago. He can't find another job anywhere, he's been everywhere trying to get one...he has applied to kohl's, target, wendy's, did work for ups for the christmas season, but after that..they let you go.
He has applied for what must be thousand's of job postings, and he rarely gets a call for an interview, and when he does, he never gets the job.
He made an amazing salary before all this, we never were in debt, we always paid our bills on time...even in full most of the time. I am partially disabled, I can't walk, and have a few other health related problems.
My sister lost her job 4 years ago and is now living with us. My son lost his job 2 years ago, but does other small jobs here and there...my daughter is in college till december. I worry she may not find employment too.
I'm so depressed. We are in such deep debt, I feel like we will never get out of debt..we are going to lose our home, and we have no place to go..we lost all our so called friends, nobody cares..nobody wants to listen to us...I feel like they all think we're going to ask for a hand out..all we want is for someone to just hear us out...let us vent. I'm so hurt by 2 friends especially...I remember helping them out emotionally when they needed me and my husband the most and now they will ask us how are you all ? and when I do tell her ( in an email) we never hear from them again. It's sad, shocking, and I would never do this to her. I just want to go away and never come back. I wish I could just go somewhere and scream my head off.
I can't take this crap anymore, I'm sick and tired of it all....all of it.
This or share with anyone expect your family or therapist because nobody want's to hear it. I been there did that they want to hear happy happy joy joy read the book how to make friends and impress others I was like you, now I don't share too much anymore. I have one close friend, but really I going back to college I am $30.00 in dept just from that I lost everything I pray alot. I don't care what people think of me anymore they don't pay my bills wtf. You shouldn't either.