My life sucks and I am not sure what to do about it. I have a step child and husband and ever since we got married a year ago all we did was for that child but three months into the marriage,she started acting up and I got the brunt of it, My husband did not believe me when I told him something was wrong and she need counseling now it has gotten so bad that I just want to disappear...She drives me crazy, she is manipulative and destructive..My husband not sure why but does nothing,,,he thinks talking to her will do the trick but she is only getting bolder with her lies...he has caught her so many times in her lies and still nothing...I am about to walk away from the marriage not because me and my husband are not fitted for each other but because of this child who keeps getting away with doing things and saying things that she is doing clearly delibrately..Even in counseling, she lies or tells half truths...I get so mad when she does her stuff but all my husband concentrates on it how mad I get...I have been dealing with this as of march and I cant take anymore...I am ready to surrender my life instead of living like this...I dont want to just leave cause she will get satisfaction I want her and him to live the rest of their life thinking of how fucked up this whole this was to the point I would rather die | |
And I hate to say this, but if I were in the girls situation, I'd do the same thing. Once a parent is out of a kid's environment, they usually don't want a replacement. I know, I had two stepdads and I eventually got rid of both of them.
In my case, I had two psychopath stepfathers one after another. The first one was a real sick son of a bitch and abused me for 6 years before getting caught one day by my mom.
The second one attempted suicide 4 times and blamed it on my presence each time, since I was taking my mom's attention away from him. I was 14 years old.
Fuck step-parenting. If it's not your DNA, leave it alone.
if your husband isn't willing to deal with the issue, then he's a pretty shitty husband who isn't worth staying with.
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