Iam a 53 year old women, single and with no children. I was married,unhappily for 15 years and got divorced 11 years ago. My family has never been close, I"ve got no close friends and I no longer enjoy my job. I divorced with the hope of finding someone that would appreciate me and share the joy of living with me. I have not found that at all. It seems that life only gets harder as one gets older. It's very difficult not really having a family for emotional support, let alone any friends. I truly have lost my joy. Every day has become a struggle. My depression has overcome me, barely able to cope with my job and lack of anything fun in my life. I am my own worse enemy. | |
welcome to the real world. now all you have to look forward to is adult diapers, loneliness and death.
see you in hell
At 53 you are not old 95 maybe but not 53!!
You need to think about good stuff in life what can you do to make others happy focus on that, help people, be kind to them, get out of your way to help them, and beleive me the reward that you will get out of this is tremendous!!!
You are someone very special, and if you want only if you want you can change your life in a instant by being who you really are.
go back to a time that you where very happy and full of energie in your life, plug your mind to those moment this will recharge your energy for you to start on you blank canvas!!
Hope you will create something great!!! because you are a beautiful person!!!
Serge xox
You have survived a lot of bad things in your life. As several other people have said- you deserve to look forward to the future.
You are not alone in the Lonely Department. Breaking out of that trap will take some work, such as joining a support group, or a local community center, or a college class, or even doing volunteer work. These are all good ice breakers, especially for someone who is shy.
You have intrinsic value as the good person that you are. When you start to feel anxious try deep breathing-slowly for 1/2 hour- because this will calm the vagus nerve in your body. Drinking water can do this- but it is not as effecient as deep breathing. Remember how valuable you are as you do this.
There are many other people who don't know you at all who are thinking good thoughts for your continued spiral upward of good health and happiness. Believe it or not,even though it may not feel like it, we are all in this together. Blessings
I am a fifty three year old never childless married Christian woman. I have wanted to marry and have never found the right person. The man I was engaged to cheated. I have had health issues, unemployment, lost my life saving during the recession. Had to go on food stamps suffered depression. loss of friends and family close to me. I am a professional person social worker. Life has been difficultt the last few years. I have found and will always find true friendship and love through Jesus Christ. I have suffered anxiety and depression most of my life. Please go out and find hobbies and join groups where people really care. Celebrate Recovery a group of people who hear and talk about their problems in a confidential group. Pray that the Lord will find true friends for you. People find friends and marriage at all stages. Please get help and support. A virtual hug and Blessings.
Blessings and Peace
Carol
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