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Loser and nothing more

Posted by letranger at May 26, 2011
Tags: Attitude  2011 May  Poverty  Unemployment

I am not pretty, not very intelligent, my family is not rich. i am the definition of ordinary. I have no ambitions in life, no interesting qualities. and yes i read all the shit about"oh every" is interesting and unique etc." not me. I finished college a year and a half ago and i still dont have a job, i am not looking for one either. i live with my dad, who is practically unemployed too. i am amazed how we afford to survive. we couldnt pay our bills so we dont have phone or internet at home anymore. Our house is like shit too. I never clean or tidy up, trying to make it even more depressing than it already is. We barely speak with my dad too. We didn't speak about my mom since she died 5 years ago. when i am outside, i play careless and happy like anyone cares, but actually i am all about worries and sadness.


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By anonymous at 10,Jun,11 22:41

You gotta move on. Apply for a job and get moving!

I'm sad and angry right now... that's why I'm here in this website, but I think that beauty, intelligence, money and education don't automatically give ourselves happiness... No one knows really. But something is for sure, stop putting your life on hold and do something.


By anonymous at 11,Jun,11 07:38

Exactly. You could be doing several things to improve your situation based upon what you've said. #1 clean your freaking house. It doesn't cost anything to clean where you live. you're just lazy. #2 look for a job. Are you gonna live at home with your dad forever? Time to grow up and be a big girl. Phone & internet is what like $100 per month, you couldn't at least get a job making that to help your poor dad out? That's selfish. And really your dad should be kicking your ass because in my house either you work or go to school or get the fuck out.

I'm sure you're still sad about your mom and that's part of your issue, but your situation isn't going to magically improve itself. YOU have to make changes and improve your life.

By anonymous at 11,Jun,11 11:11

Actually it sounds like a pretty easy and chill life, no responsibilities, dad isn't asking for money, dad is somewhat working... my dad hasn't had a job since the late 80s. Dad doesn't expect you to clean the house. Doesn't abuse you. So what can you do? Hang out with people, or sit by yourself and dream and write. You're a free woman. Yeah I feel average too. I even have a common name, like no thought went into it. College is usually a waste of time unless it has a specific direction, like nursing or accounting. Sometimes people are better off specializing in things, like learning a skill such as electrician, plumbing. (yeah you're a girl, so what?)
You're life doesn't sound that bad, but I gave you a "yeah that sucks" to make you feel better.

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