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Posted by anonymous at August 12, 2011
Tags: Attitude  2011 August  Loneliness

I'm 24, never had a proper girlfriend and recently lost my virginity to a hooker. I dont have many friends and the ones I've are males wich makes harder for me to meet a girl. I cant find a job and live with my parents. Although I've been told by some girls I'm good looking it almost never surpasses that phase because I'm too shy to ask them out. I feel so lonely right now and that the change of my situation is beyond my capacities. I really cant stand to live and think about suicide all the time. My family is the only reason why I havent done it yet. A few moths I started a relationship with a girl but she dumped me, even before we had sex. Sorry for my english but I had to let this out.


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By anonymous at 29,Sep,11 18:29

Oh man, I know how much that sucks. You are a few years ahead of me, but I'm pretty much following you footsteps :D. It does get pretty lonely sometimes, but I managed to almost solve this problem simply by ignoring it. I faced the fact that I am simply not meant to have a romantic relationship, that I was simply not made for it, it's just not in my genes or whatever. Basically I decided to stay single for good. Not go out of my way to meet girls and all that. It really takes the pressure off mentally. Instead I try and concentrate on other things, like traveling, adventuring, career etc. Sometimes I think about it and I realize that many married people will never have the chance to do some of the things that I see myself doing in the future. So that's that. It isn't the best solution to the problem and it works only half the time, but it's better than nothing. Hope you can draw some useful conclusions from this :).
By anonymous at 13,Oct,11 14:51

I M A GRL N M ALSO A LONER... BT I HV ALSO MOVED ON IGNORING THINGS WHICH MAKES ME SAD... B HAPPY STAY POSITIVE...LIFE WILL BE GOOD... HAI NA..


By anonymous at 30,Sep,11 12:48

Changing oneselves' situation is almost NEVER beyond the own capacities; many people only need a big, fat kick in their ass to realize this.
Life is more than lust and love towards girls/boys; and having a family to rely on is worth so much, you should think about it as privilege, cause there are many who don't even have that.

Concentrate on something else while being thankful for what you already have.


By anonymous at 04,Oct,11 14:30

hang yourself
By anonymous at 11,Oct,11 23:46

ASSHOLE!! Why do read this type of stuff just to pick on people you fuck head.


By anonymous at 07,Oct,11 16:17

I know it seems helpless but don't be daft- wake up from this bad thoughts. You are so very young. And we can be so mistaken when we are young. We take everything so seriously. Life is really simple- we complicate it and it is not just a saying, it is true. Believe me we do not see real life clearly and fully when we are so young. I've been there and I wish I beleived in me, I wish I valued me then. I wish I knew it was better to explore all possibilites that life presented me and not waste time feeling sorry for myself. There is so much is life but girls. And there is always time for marriage and family. There is such a huge world to discover and if that is not enough just open your heart, open your eyes and do not be afraid to go for it when an oppportunity is there. Do not despair, do not stay at home thinking that your happiness, your moment will just present itself at your front door. It does not! period! No, go out into the world and find somebody to share your life! if that's what you really want - and it usually is what we all want right, so go for it- stop feeling sorry for yourself- you have been blessed with life, do not let stupid thoughts to be in the way! If you do not act now, next time you are reading this you will be 62 years old and feeling life has just gone by you! Do you wanna that? I dont think so!
I do wish I could clear your mind from negative thoughts. Some people just know how to say things and touch souls. I dont. But it hurts me to see someone so young
hurting- please don't. Do not waste this wonderful gift that is life - it is really very short- make the most of it.


By at 11,Oct,11 21:42

I know how you feel, I feel the same way but the other way round I'm a girl, I have no confidence what so ever, it really fucks my life up, I have severe anxiety in so manysituations, nothing seems to work with boys I feel like a Fucked up failure I don't have anyone to turn to, I feel so.alone and have done for months, I hate this feeling but i don't have anyone to talk to.its horrible, I get so stressed with it all I can't do it anymore I want someone to help me everyday I'm sinking lower and lower


By anonymous at 11,Oct,11 21:59

Talk to me sometime :) bkbowed@hotmail.co.uk xx


By anonymous at 11,Oct,11 22:00

Talk to me sometime :) bkbowed@hotmail.co.uk xx


By anonymous at 11,Oct,11 23:45

I think everyone feels lonely. I know I do I have a loving husband (but he's a man) doesn't understand my changing moods and sometimes heightens my depression. His phone is always ringing with his friends or people that need him and I only have to charge my phone once a week. I do have brothers I don't see enough and every one seems to side with my husband more than me - family and friends. I have a job (thank God) I am there all day all alone and try not to feel sorry for myself and try not to cry and try to be thankful for what I have but at the beginning of the day I have to fight to get out of bed and then I just pray that the day will pass until I can come home and find that I am just dreading the next day. See I have people around me and I still feel lonely. And by the way the person that said hang yourself - FUCK YOU ASSHOLE!!!!


By anonymous at 13,Oct,11 23:02

Maybe if you put your effort to get a job and have your own place, your self-esteem will definitely go up. And with it, your confidence in meeting women. I was without a job once. At that time I was not keen on working, but somehow I feel embarassed meeting girls. Then I got an 8-5 job. Even though the job sucks, it pays the bills. But wow it made me feel like Brad Pitt when I socialize with the girls. Now I am happily married with kids.


By anonymous at 16,Oct,11 22:16

First of all: No such thing as virginity.

Second of all: Don't kill yourself, you're only 24.


By anonymous at 17,Oct,11 19:52

It will not get better. I am almost 35 only had sex a couple of times with prostitutes. Never had a girlfriend. The only thing I learned is that It depends on me to move forward, get that girl, had that life I want. One day I will have the strength to do it but suicide is not an option. It is difficult being alone but ending it doesn't solve it. The other day I was seeing this new series how to be a gentleman, it is not good, but one thing I like is that they go to a bar to have the main character to be rejected by every single girl on it. The exercise is to learn to be rejected and maybe that is what I need. Loose the fear to ask girls out, loose the fear to be rejected. It is logic, it is numbers. One woman out there would say yes but until I start asking I will never find her.


By anonymous at 03,Nov,11 21:02

It's amazing the number of "lonely" people there are on this forum who are supposedly good looking.

Lol, you guys are such a bunch of self- indulgent losers who think the world of yourselves. I'm not coming from a castigating point of view here, just think that your lives would truly be much happier if you stopped obsessing about yourselves. Really.


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