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your life will always suck

Posted by Billy at March 4, 2010
Tags:  2010 March

Verbal, psychological, physical and sexual abuse produce deep wounds and configure emotional patterns that we act on compulsively. That explains why we as abused people always put ourselves in abusive situations. Take for example a story I read here, a girl that got passed the date-rape drug 3 times. ¿How about going out in group dates with friends after the first rape, until you get to know the person?

But no, exposure to hurtfull situations that confirm our inadequacy are unconsciously longed for and lived over and over again. Therfore, if your life sucks due to abuse, it will suck forever. It will never change, because abuse produced neurosis when you were small, and that is a disease which doesn´t go away by itself. You´re doomed.

There is only one solution. Psychoanalysis. NOT PSYCOTHERAPY, but orthodox freudian analysis. There are however some con´s to it:
-its very expensive
-it hurts so fucking much your gonna wish you were never born.
-there´s no garantees you´ll be strong enough to face your problems or be able to go through the process
-its slow, might take years, even decades

The pro´s are obvious. It´s the only kind of psychological intervention that can really change you fucked up brain. It´s the only way out. Forget meditation,anger managment, new age bull shit, counting to ten and breathing deep and all that "feel better in 10 days" bull shit. Its either that or watching your life go down the drain. And forget regular psycotherapy, its like make up: it makes you feel pretty only for a few hours, but doesn´t change shit inside. Good luck in this fucked up world and life


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By anonymous at 05,Mar,10 21:34

Go fuck your self


By anonymous at 09,Mar,10 22:09

I think you're like Dr. Phil only retarded. You are obviously an idiot.


By anonymous at 11,Mar,10 00:55

I need help. I wake up in the morning and all I can seem to think about is having anal sex with Steve Wilkos. On my lunch break at work I sneak off to the bathroom to jack off to his chocolate love hole, and every night I lay in bed all i can think about is tossing his salad. How Id love to just get one finger in that hershey highway! What to do?


By anonymous at 15,Oct,10 23:58

i agree with you on most of it. i exclude the rape part because i have empathy for the person and will exclude them. yeah, ptsd coucilors say all this stupid crap that doesn't even work, why? so they can mark "making improvement" and look like they are doing their job to the big boss. if the patient made improvement, why'd they end up back in the hospital. they of course havn't experienced anything, just read some books and dictate b.s. when a panic attck comes present or a flashback, they say to rub your feet on the ground to stay grounded-b.s. it's all crap. everything is all crap. they don't help. they just sit back and get euphoric after thinking they helped from dictating their b.s. from teh books, not life experience. all these stupid techniques don't even work. and when one is hospitalized, they make the patient do stupid positive affirmations, then refer them to self-help groups so they don't have to doe their jobs. you are right. new age crap sucks and doesn't work. then, they sure don't hesitate to collect payment wile dictating b.s. therapists are sadistic and enjoyy punishing the patient with their desensitivitization plan by pushing their buttons and their sadistic techniques. all they do is break the patient and bring them back as someone else, without validation for their trauma.


By anonymous at 15,Oct,10 23:59

stupid abusers like to lie and call the abusee crazy. it's called "crazy-making". no one believes the abused. abusers suck. they always will. and it does matter on how one was raised.


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