Verbal, psychological, physical and sexual abuse produce deep wounds and configure emotional patterns that we act on compulsively. That explains why we as abused people always put ourselves in abusive situations. Take for example a story I read here, a girl that got passed the date-rape drug 3 times. ¿How about going out in group dates with friends after the first rape, until you get to know the person?
But no, exposure to hurtfull situations that confirm our inadequacy are unconsciously longed for and lived over and over again. Therfore, if your life sucks due to abuse, it will suck forever. It will never change, because abuse produced neurosis when you were small, and that is a disease which doesn´t go away by itself. You´re doomed.
There is only one solution. Psychoanalysis. NOT PSYCOTHERAPY, but orthodox freudian analysis. There are however some con´s to it:
-its very expensive
-it hurts so fucking much your gonna wish you were never born.
-there´s no garantees you´ll be strong enough to face your problems or be able to go through the process
-its slow, might take years, even decades
The pro´s are obvious. It´s the only kind of psychological intervention that can really change you fucked up brain. It´s the only way out. Forget meditation,anger managment, new age bull shit, counting to ten and breathing deep and all that "feel better in 10 days" bull shit. Its either that or watching your life go down the drain. And forget regular psycotherapy, its like make up: it makes you feel pretty only for a few hours, but doesn´t change shit inside. Good luck in this fucked up world and life | |
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