iam 22 and iam a student in college.. iam in a city far away from my hometown. before i use to live in pg but now as my elder sister has also come here to do her coching we live together in a flat.i know some people here back from my hometown some of them are my schoolmates.2 and a half years living in a pg i got only two friends 1 of whome iam close with, they are from my college.. and they both live in diffrent pgs.i spent lot of my time infront of my laptop when ever i feel like going out or realy lonely sometime i use to call them to stay with me for 1 or 2 days but as they are too busy i would always end up forcing them to come.i cannot mingle quik with people i dont know so, whole my life i have never been in a group friendship.i would only have 1 or 2 close friends.before i use to think may be iam in a pg so i wasnt able to socialize but now even after living in a flat i couldnt socialize.i see my friends they have my no. but they dont call me,even when i call my friends to stay with me they act like they are too busy with there lives but then again somehow i get to know that she was with my other friends the other day. it feels like they ignore me,they call me only when they need me..that also sometimes.i want to have friends i want them to like me but i fail.i have tried everything from my side like everything i could but even then its the same. iam realy lonely and i feel so sad.iam in a point where iam sick of myself. | |
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I remember when I first move to a new city to work, I dont have any friends too. I rent a room. No family members too. Start everything from scratch. First few months was really depressing.
But once you get over the first few months, it is ok. You will start to make friends. Join a club is best way to make new friends. You are in college. Form or join study groups.
or hang out with your sister and her friends.
Also, accept fact that people move on. I have friends whom i was very closed to, but then we just drift apart when she got married. Or when they have bfs or found another group of friends. This is life...unfortunately
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