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No kids so husband doesnt like me I guess

Posted by Teller at April 18, 2010
Tags: 2010 April  Relationship

I'm in my early 40's. I married late (35 years old) because I waited for the "right guy" hahahah so I thought! Turns out my husband really only married me because he wanted to have children. The sad thing is that I suspected that but married him anyways, so really I have no one to blame but myself. He seemed so intensely in love with me though and I thought we would be so good together and all I lacked in life was love so I thought that we would have kids and I would have his love forever, but it turns out that he as only really intense about the kid part, and after I had 3 miscarriages and 1 stillborn baby he has decided that I am not quite the one for him. He is cold and jokes about getting a divorce. We are seeing a counselor but he is angry that we "have to see a counselor". I feel lonely and sad in this marriage but I can't put my finger on what the problem is because it's hard to pinpoint. we've been married 6 years. He contacted an escort last month but didn't follow through, but the escort called back on his cell phone and I happenned to pick up that day and did research. So now I know that he might have tried to cheat on me. Still no proof. We looked into international adoption and fostering, but both of us determined that we couldn't handle any more heartbreak and we also can t' afford it. I'm fine not having children now but I wish I had a busband who loved me still, but he seems to sometimes hate me but will never come right out and say it and when I try to talk to him about it he says I am just trying to cause an argument. We've both started drinking a lot of alcohol lately. For me, it's just to get through the day. I feel heartbroken and alone. I'm still loving him and hoping it will get back to the way it was.


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By anonymous at 18,Apr,10 12:51

I guess your husband is older than you and also was waiting for a "perfect girl" until it was too late and he's finally realized that all he can do - get any women that agree to marry him and make some kids. Otherwise he'll get to finish his life all alone.

Honestly you should be happy that you found someone at your age. Unless you prefer to be alone the rest of your life.


By anonymous at 20,Apr,10 22:29

Its over, he doesn't care and neither do you. Life is too short to settle for just anyone, like the moron above me said. Do yourself and your husband a favor, get a divorce and move on.


By anonymous at 25,Apr,10 23:44

anonymous at april 18th is an idiot. I am 52 and never been married. Now believe me I wished i had found someone who i thought i could be happy with ..but it hasnt happened at least not yet. And if it doesnt I am fine with it. I have a full life and i have great friends. it is much better to be with someone who wants you for you than to be in a miserable relationship. In another words it is better to be alone the rest of your life than to be with a mentally abusive husband which is what you have. If he truly loved you then he would accept you for you...find someone else but get out of that relationship
By anonymous at 22,Mar,12 01:33

i am in agreement with you. im in my early thirties and im alone. it sucks! but when i hear and read all these crazy stories of people who are married and are not happy, fighting, stabbing each other and all that crazy stuff i thank God that i am alone and i dont have anyone to add on to my aleady stressed life. i have said to myself i will not live a lie, have a man for the sake of having because i dont want to be alone ot because i have come of age. my happiness matters.


By Topher at 26,Nov,11 07:15

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