I have been married for 8 years none which have been good, I have been constantly put down by my wife and her family. My wife believes she has to tell her mom everything about our marriage. I have been verbally and physically abused by my wife, punched, kicked, and even been hit over the head with objects. For most of our marriage the issue was money, she comes from a wealthy family, and shortly after our marriage demanded that I get out of the military to move her back home or I will never see my kids again. Upon moving her back it became hard to find a decent paying job, I worked a job making 11 an hour...its almost impossible to support a family of 5 off of that with her expectations. For a few years I was told I was a worthless husband and father by her and her mom bc I was unable to support my family. About a year ago I landed an amazing job to where I am now making 120k a year the job was a few hours away from her parents and she wanted me to turn it down, I took the job moved us down here and within 3 months she had left but not before spending every last dime I had mad and putting me into almost 50k in debt. She filed for divorce sayin that I beat her and the kids telling me that she will take me for all that I am worth and I will never see the kids again. A few weeks later she stops the divorce telling me she was wrong and she wants to work things out. I give her another chance the other day she takes 8k out and went and set up a mommy makeover surgery without saying anything to me and then says she is thinking of filing for divorce again but this time she is signing over her rights to our daughter, who in her words says she is a worthless brat and cannot stand her, she yells at her all the time, deprives her of things and is harder on her than the 2 boys, my daughter is 6 and I admit at times can be stubborn but in no way is she a brat and has no hope in life. I cannot believe. She says I love her as much as I can that she wants to lock her in her room all day, and wishes to never see her again. My heart breaks for my daughter she is my baby girl and doesn't understand why her mother is acting this way or does the things she does. I have no clue what to do I do not want my family split up. I grew up that why and spent the last 6 years of my childhood in foster care. | |
That way, your wife can have some time to herself and might not get so crazy.
Be sure to install a nanny cam though to make sure it's not some crazy nanny.
Then, once a month, send your wife to the spa for a manicure and facial.
This way maybe you could take the promotion. I mean, it would help your kids get set up financially in the fiture right? and retirement?
some kind of part time help around the house, if you hire the right person, be the best goddamn money you ever spent.
My opinion is that if she says she wants a new man, pack her bags and let her get one. You pay for the home and fiancially take care of your children. It's tough when they're still young but you could be a single Dad, you could make it work and be happier for it.
I have read a lot of postings this morning and I really believe that women don't understand how good they have got it! My husband and I are going through a lot of financial pressure at the moment but there is no way I would be unkind to him or treat him harshly because of it - he's trying to provide for us but things just aren't working out. If I had a husband like you I would cherish him and there are a lot more women like me in the world who would treat you kindly and deservingly. Don't put up with it any longer - she may be beautiful after her makeover but her daughter doesn't care about that. Children need a stable home with loving parents and if that's only going to be one good and loving parent then so be it.
I really hope that you find the courage to change your situation - it may feel scary in the short term but long term you won't look back and regret doing it.
My whole family live on another continent and as much as I would like to be near them and miss them terribly, my own created family comes first and I am not selfish enough to put us more in debt even to visit them.
God bless and good luck with it - make the changes and be happy.
Your wife sounds like mine in 6 years.
Her family sounds like my wife's family now.
I'm still in the Military and she wants me to get out to move her home too.
Terrifying.
She is very high temper and can not tolerate any judgment but to judge everyone. I do make a good money and invested most of my life on her. She has no respect for me at all and has no hesitation to say anything to me front of my children, couple times I decided to end my lifem I am realty sick and tired of my life and starting to lose my mind. please somebody in my situation tell me what to do, I am about to leave everything behind and end mylife or go to another country that no one could imagine
Pants off dance off?
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