I really like this girl and i dont know what to do im soo shy and im alwasy lonley i have no friends i think that's why the girl dont like me i want just a normal life just hang with friends and have a good lofe like that others.
Never assume that "others" are enjoying life more than you. There are millions of girls around. Find some girl with the same interests as you and you will eventually become friends. There are no shortcuts to true friendship.
ya ur right. today i hung out with one of my best friends and i realized that all it takes to realize true friendship is to dig ur feet in the rocks, stare at the sunset, and talk.
I'm going to give you a list of questions you can ask to a girl, girls love to talk about themselves when you ask it.
What do they like to do in their spare time?
What music do they like to listen to?
Do they like to watch movies, if yes, what movies?
What area in the job market do they work in?
-Do they enjoy the job?
-What do they hope to get out of it?
-Is it good pay?
-Is the job easy or hard?
-How long have they been working at the job for?
What is their dream job?
-Why do they have great interest in it?
-Was it a childhood dream that still sticks to their minds to this day?
-How long do they think it will take them to achieve their dream job?
Do they like to travel?
-Where would they like to travel to?
-When did they see themselves going to such and such?
-What would be their favorite part of the world to go to?
Do they love animals?
-Do they own any pets?
-How old are they?
What is their favorite food?
What is their favorite drink?
What kind of books do they read?
What is their favorite author?
-What is it about their favorite author that keeps their attention on reading the authors books?
Hypothetical questions you can ask them once you get past the scary stranger zone into the "he is a nice guy zone"
If you could teleport right now to any place in the world, where would you go?
What is the best purchase you ever made?
If you could gaze into a crystal ball and see a single day in your future, which day would it be?
Anyways, if you're interested in a girl, all this talk is much like gathering intelligence. Every time you ask a question, you find out something about her. In this case, you could relate to it, and talk up a storm while you share the exact same interests.
This is all just one method to start a conversation, but is probably the most effective. The environment can be a tool to use as a conversation keeper as well. Although it may be a bit tricky, no one wants to talk about the weather. If something occurred in the recent area and made the news, you can always talk about that. Or even a funny guy that walks by, don't make it look like your a picky fellow, say something friendly and funny to the girl about the guy that doesn't degrade or appears to degrade. If you're in the local library, thats an excellent environment to talk about. Does she come here a lot?
When it come to the discussion on dating factors, this can work tremendously to your advantage. Ask her what type of guys she looks for in her life, if she mentions anything about Ex's let her talk about it. She will present everything she hates about guys on a platter, and you can show yourself to her as the opposite to that last guy. But don't ever talk bad about the guy and call that guy a !@#$head, women are emotionally sensitive, so talking about her ex may stir her up even though he treated her wrong.
All this shows your a good listener as well, don't forget that. Girls will always see that. If she starts asking questions about you, in the same manner, be yourself, breathe the fresh air and just enjoy yourself...you're enjoying her company right?
Oh and uh...compliment her on a frequent basis if she starts to talk about physical imagery of herself, if she talks about her hair, just compliment her on saying her hair looks beautiful ect ect...okay I'm out of here.
Don't pretend to be sad or angry. There is no need to act like me...a God...
What do they like to do in their spare time?
What music do they like to listen to?
Do they like to watch movies, if yes, what movies?
What area in the job market do they work in?
-Do they enjoy the job?
-What do they hope to get out of it?
-Is it good pay?
-Is the job easy or hard?
-How long have they been working at the job for?
What is their dream job?
-Why do they have great interest in it?
-Was it a childhood dream that still sticks to their minds to this day?
-How long do they think it will take them to achieve their dream job?
Do they like to travel?
-Where would they like to travel to?
-When did they see themselves going to such and such?
-What would be their favorite part of the world to go to?
Do they love animals?
-Do they own any pets?
-How old are they?
What is their favorite food?
What is their favorite drink?
What kind of books do they read?
What is their favorite author?
-What is it about their favorite author that keeps their attention on reading the authors books?
Hypothetical questions you can ask them once you get past the scary stranger zone into the "he is a nice guy zone"
If you could teleport right now to any place in the world, where would you go?
What is the best purchase you ever made?
If you could gaze into a crystal ball and see a single day in your future, which day would it be?
Anyways, if you're interested in a girl, all this talk is much like gathering intelligence. Every time you ask a question, you find out something about her. In this case, you could relate to it, and talk up a storm while you share the exact same interests.
This is all just one method to start a conversation, but is probably the most effective. The environment can be a tool to use as a conversation keeper as well. Although it may be a bit tricky, no one wants to talk about the weather. If something occurred in the recent area and made the news, you can always talk about that. Or even a funny guy that walks by, don't make it look like your a picky fellow, say something friendly and funny to the girl about the guy that doesn't degrade or appears to degrade. If you're in the local library, thats an excellent environment to talk about. Does she come here a lot?
When it come to the discussion on dating factors, this can work tremendously to your advantage. Ask her what type of guys she looks for in her life, if she mentions anything about Ex's let her talk about it. She will present everything she hates about guys on a platter, and you can show yourself to her as the opposite to that last guy. But don't ever talk bad about the guy and call that guy a !@#$head, women are emotionally sensitive, so talking about her ex may stir her up even though he treated her wrong.
All this shows your a good listener as well, don't forget that. Girls will always see that. If she starts asking questions about you, in the same manner, be yourself, breathe the fresh air and just enjoy yourself...you're enjoying her company right?
Oh and uh...compliment her on a frequent basis if she starts to talk about physical imagery of herself, if she talks about her hair, just compliment her on saying her hair looks beautiful ect ect...okay I'm out of here.
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