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Not sure what to do...

Posted by trying at February 19, 2012
Tags: 2012 February  Loneliness

I have been lonely for as long as I can remember. And honestly its not because people arent in my lives, I just dont have that desired interest to keep them in my lives. Like I don't understand why I never go to the full length to keep it on good terms with people in my life. Like my ex boyfriend, well he certainly wasn;t the best in the world, but when he and I would fight I would just say "I don't care" and leave it. Even when I know I am the one who's wrong, I chose to NEVER beg for sorries, ask him whats wrong, or cater to him like girls normally do, I was on a " If you wanna leave, thats fine with me"...but I loved him tho. Friends too, when they get mad at me I never try to figure it out, or make it up to them, I ask them once and if they want to linger, I just say forget it, do what you want. Im worn out at this point, I look to my left and right, I have no one with me EVER! It's all coming from what Im doing, not what everyone is doing. Like I want people in my life but Im not working to keep them there. Whats wrong?


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By anonymous at 27,Feb,12 10:40

Hey, I hope you're doing okay Trying.

First, I'd like you to know that you're not alone and there are a lot of people who have similar problems to this. It's not as much a condition as a state, like being out of shape. All you have to do is train yourself to be more social, the more effort you give the easier it is going to be to give effort. Just make sure to push, when you try hard good things happen.

By at 27,Feb,12 12:22

Meow~ You can be a loner and be a mother for a pet that you like. Or you can try harder to be a friedship seeking person meow, but this is the more difficult choice than the other meow. I am assuming that you are still young meow, if you took the easy way and live like a loner, than 6 years later you would be an official loner for life, meowmeow for now.

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