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Ugly sad and depressed.

Posted by anonymous at March 14, 2012
Tags: Appearance  Attitude  2012 March  Sexuality

I am 22, male-gay. I am so ugly that I am worthless. No takes me seriously. I am disrespected or simply taken for granted. I am place in a very disadvantaged position wherein the world I live judges me on how I look physically. I can't enjoy my life because on how I look. I am made fun because of my condition. †I have a fat face with facial features that are too near each other. My eyebrows are sagging that it makes my eyes smaller. My nose doesn't have a bridge, it has a flat tip and wide alars. My lips are thick uneven and very disproportionate.†

My skin is full of imperfections. Acne, blackheads, whiteheads, ice pick scars, deep scars, spots, and unwanted facial hair and enlarged pores. I have cystic acne which is very hard to treat even with Accutane.†

My body is very disproportionate. Not muscular enough for a man's body. I have a big belly with tiny arms and legs. I have been working out for the past 5 years but my efforts proved to be ineffective.†

I want to enjoy my life. But I am restricted on the way I look. I can't look well in pictures and go out with friends because I can't look good because of my face and skin and I can't wear nice clothes because of my body. Why is the world like this? It is soo unfair for me to have these soo much problems to bear. I cry every night because I feel like I'm doomed, I am a useless garbage. No matter what I do I look disgusting and filthy. I am exhausted and aggravated by life. I have no friends and social life to speak of. I am gay. I don't want to have my own family because I have bad genes which might affect my offsprings and they might suffer the same fate as I did.†

I am considering cosmetic surgery and skin treatment very seriously now. But I'm scared of surgery and I can't afford it considering I have many problematic areas, facial features and body. I can maintain dermatological treatments to because of limited funds and hectic school schedule.†

What am I gonna do with my life? I am a useless trash, a sad desperate soul. This problem is too much for me to handle that I am seriously depressed and thinking of committing suicide.. But I'm scared of suicide so I wish every night while crying to die in my sleep instead.†

I can't say it enough that I'm sad. I'm depressed. I'm lonely. I am so insecure. I think I have a body dysmorphic disorder as a psychological effect of persistent cystic acne. I have an Adonis dysmorphic disorder because of my insecurities of my body.†

To other reading this, I might sound shallow. I am shallow. Everyone is. I wanna die right now.†

I blame my grandma for being ugly. I blame my grandpa for choosing her. I blame my father and mother for this acne. I blame my father for this body. I blame the person responsible for making me gay. I don't want to be gay. †This is too much! I am angry. More than I am sad depressed and lonely, I am angry for those responsible for my sufferings emotionally psychologically mentally and physically. My life is useless from the start. No one can love me because of my looks. I would never have a boyfriend.†

I want to cry and cry and cry but I can't cry any more tears. I'm so hurt., no one can help me.†


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By anonymous at 15,Mar,12 23:31

Jesus Loves you. Seek him.
By at 16,Mar,12 14:47

Islam offers inner-peace to you. It offers direct relationship between you and Allah Almighty.
By anonymous at 25,Aug,12 09:25

By anonymous at 14,Feb,16 13:56 Fold Up

allah ackbar
By anonymous at 20,Apr,20 05:07 Fold Up

I think she can make friends with homeless.

By anonymous at 16,Mar,12 01:23

Excuse me, but please ignore the comment stated before me(which completely disgusts me). Thousands of gay people go through depression or suicide everyday because their lives are filled with unsupporting family and friends, and they can't come out. Being gay is totally fine, and you should be proud of it.

I think everyone goes through their own image problem, and you are not alone in this matter(I also have a severe case of acne that stresses me out). Your mom, dad, grandma, or grandpa, who gave you (what you think are) horrible traits, each found a loving partner who loves them for who they are. You will find that special guy, just keep looking and don't be discouraged!
By anonymous at 16,Mar,12 11:16

Ignore you crater face! Go and seek psych. help cause you're clearly suffering from psychosis. what if the special guy you're saying didn't come along? Or if he did, realized gay couldn't even afford the bus fare he needed to go somewhere for a job? Tell me, who wants a peniless gay? Get somebody to slap you in the face twice to wake you up from your silly dreams.

By anonymous at 16,Mar,12 08:54

Here's what you do honeybooboo... You need to have a sex change it sounds like. Then you can wear makeup as well and cover your zits as well as you won't be gay anymore becuz u will be a woman and u will have that hotdog in your hole. And if your body is already more womanly looking and curvy then your well on your way to having a better life as the woman you always were!

By Truth at 16,Mar,12 16:01

It could be that you just smell like ass. You dip it in the browneye, well, you smell like ass, and no one likes assy smells. Also, no one likes a snow clown potato head who looks like he took a grenade to the face.

Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, well, not really, but anyway, you're pretty much fucked.
By Strange Kid to Truth at 03,Apr,13 22:38

Truth! Why must you be in a relationship with Broken?! Its not right, since I am the one who loves you and for some odd reason been stalking Mercy...-_-"
You and Mercy are the ones I love the most! XD
God, I need you badly!

By anonymous at 16,Mar,12 19:55

Please sweetheart my name is jennifer I am a 35 yr old mom with a 15 year old son and my heart aches that you feel that suicide is even n option for you...Everyone has a reason for being here..I have a story too while i was blessed with looks everything else in my life is fucked up maybe because of that...If you want to talk pls email me I think you just need a friend...fb me and let me know its you my name is jennifer santanello you can find me by my name...

By anonymous at 25,Mar,12 07:25

You should not be gay and maybe you wouldnt worry so much about your looks.

By anonymous at 07,Apr,12 16:16

Friend, stop thinking about ur look,u cant do much about it.
instead try to learn things by which u can earn money in future, with money u can bye joy.

By anonymous at 18,Apr,12 19:26

I know you can't help it, but stop obsessing over how you look. I'm not good-looking either and I doubt I will ever find a lover but you are giving your looks too much thought. You are letting it affect your perception of self to the extent that you think you're useless.

NO, you aren't useless. You might make a good writer. You may find solace in artistic areas which you can use as an outlet. And when I say that, I don't mean self-pity type of literature.

You need to find something you love doing that makes you feel good about yourself. You have a major issue with self-esteem. It's good to be concerned about body-image in order to take care of yourself but you're taking it to extreme proportions!

By anonymous at 30,Apr,12 06:59

I am actually considered very good looking. Im a woman...I just turned 40. I was adopted, so i compared my looks (blonde, Swedish, Anna Nicole-ish) to my siblings, who all of them are from my adopted parents. (Tiny, brunette, hazel eyed...given into expressions of dance and song in public. I privately nicknamed them the VONTRAPPS, after "The Sound Of Music" Anyway, I grew up feeling like a misfit. Although I might be considered pretty (although Im approaching an age when women are put out to pasture)I never felt right in my own skin. I attractted a lot of men in my time...but always thouroughly wrecked the relationships by my NEEDiness and subsusquent alcohol and or drug abuse. I have had guys give me the world, only to retract it later, after discovering what amess I am. It doesn't matter to much if u are pretty or ugly. You sound intelligent, at least self-aware, which is not a common den. in men these days. Take comfort in the fact its not because u are (or think) u r unattractive. It goes deeper. Work on the inside. heal. Or go balls out and fuck it up with alcohol, like yours truly

By anonymous at 06,May,12 11:13

I can't say I understand gay men.
but I do know it is different from drag queen.
so do you want to be a more attractive gay man or do you want to become a woman?

By anonymous at 20,Aug,12 21:19

i continue. I hate girls and women. Most of them are cruel evil selfish unfriendly materialistic heartless assholes. They ignore me. I DONT CARE. Fuck them. Vapid scum describes them.

By anonymous at 01,Sep,12 01:21

and my final message to all of you who harassed me are FUCK YOU ASSHOLES.

By hummekenl at 08,Dec,12 11:21

I am glad someone chose to sooner or later shed light on this. I have reflected on it from time to time.

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By anonymous at 25,Apr,13 22:08

Hey. Im 22yo too. Everything u wrote here actually describes me. For a moment i asked myself did i write this? Im gay too. And i cry every day because of my skin too. And however, i want to talk with u. Nobody understands me and i cant talk about this with anybody. I tried everything but nothing worked. I left my school and friends i cant stand ppl are looking me with those looks. Everyone who says hes ugly and then see me he change his mind. Life sux. I loved ppl, i loved life but now i just hate all of them. I wanted to hav good job, working hard and with ppl...but even school teachers cant watch me more than a second. Friends dnt give me eye contact. So i cant be with ppl its too painful. Now im always in my house, dnt wanna go out.maybe thats the reason why im still alive. Im afraid someone sees my ugly dead body. Hope u ll leave me a mail...i will wait for it.

By anonymous at 27,Jul,13 12:00

Hey guys guess what we all go thru this. my advice is talk to some other gay guys at the gym believe me there are plenty of them out there. the will help you. skin can be fixed go to bath and body works the staff there will help.

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I and my husband have been having a lot of problem living together, he will always not make me happy because he have fallen in love with another lady outside our relationship, i tried my best to make sure that my husband leave this woman but the more i talk to him the more he makes me feel sad, so my marriage is now leading to divorce because he no longer gives me attention. so with all this pain and agony, i decided to contact this spell caster to see if things can work out between me and my husband again. the spell caster told me what i will do to get my husband back, so he told me that he was going to make all things normal back. he did the spell on my husband and after 5 days my husband changed completely he even apologize with the way he treated me that he was not him self, i really thank this priest his name is Dr HOODOO he have bring back my husband back to me i want you all to contact him who are having any problem related to marriage issue and relationship problem he will solve it for you. his email

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