I am a lonely guy. I need the warmth of a woman in my life, but I can't find anyone. No woman is interested in me. I have some positive attributes that people admire. I'm smart, decent looking, I have talents, I am capable of taking a leading role, I have friends, I have money, but with all of that no woman has ever loved me, no woman has ever shown signs of interest. I don't understand what women want I guess... I'm 20 years old. It isn't normal to never have a relationship at age 20. I mean some people do and they may tell me to get over it but i think deep down they are just as sad I am... | |
I don't know how you approach women.. take it easy and not too seriously.
did you ask someone out? Even if 100 tell you no, eventually someone will answer you positively ;-)
I guess it's a matter of experience.
i paid a hooker to have sex with me
i have loved the same girl i loved for the first time.. 15 yrs ago
i still love her
i pretend that her spirit is with me
tl;dr kill yourself
The reality is that you are not interested in any woman. You are self centered.
When you finally realize that, and you finally become interested in a particular woman, she may find you interesting too.
I had a co-worker who dated a different woman every week. He told me that he got to know a woman enough to know if she was the right girl for him. He used a fisherman's term "catch and release". When he found the right girl, he would keep dating her as long as he was happy with her. If a relationship "turned south" he would bid her a friendly good-by and move on. The key is knowing when to move on.
Watch and learn. Then you can dump your left hand and get a girl.
I would suggest you take some pressure off it. You said you have friends, go out with them. The place where you will not find somebody is at you apartment. Go out with your friends, to whatever place you like. And be open, try to meet people. But dont just go out there and try to talk ONLY with the girls you want to sleep with, or have a relationship with, or marry.
Talk to any girl. Even if she is not a pretty girl, or doesnt seem your type. Maybe you will later like her, or maybe through her you will meet somebody that you do like and likes you.
Remember that the more people you know, the better chances you will get along with somebody. And, if you dont meet somebody for a serious relationship, maybe you get a good friend that is a girl, and wants to get some benefits. Or maybe you get a friend that is a girl, and likes getting drunk with you and getting in bed once in a while. It is not so bad to have some friends that are like that :)
By the way, I am a girl. And i have sometimes gotten drunk and had sex with THAT guy that no girl wants to date, and for some reason a couple of weeks after that girls start getting more friendly with them. I sometimes dont understand girls, but it is like that. I think they can see in your face that you havent had sex in a while and it scares them. (By the way, sex with a paid girl, wont remove the "look" from your eyes.)
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