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Posted by lonelyperson at March 31, 2012
Tags: Loneliness  2012 March

I am writing this because i am lonely and don't have anyone to talk to and maybe it will make me feel better. I am 27 and a guy and i should be happy because i have health and a family. but i have never had a girlfriend and never get laid or have any ladies who want to spend time with me. i pay for prostitutes like once a year and it sucks. i try to not masturbate but then i dream about sex and it comes out at night. i am so frustrated to not get any women. when i go out and see happy people or see someone i like and they ignore me it sucks. there have been many times when i tried to get to know someone politely but they always reject me and call me a creep. i try to be happy and do good for my family but seeing women or thinking or sex makes me feel impotent and frustrated. i get so angry and can not deal with anything. i have a very large penis but it has never helped me to get laid. women always find me uninteresting and weird. i can't drink alcohol and that makes meeting people harder. i know no one cares but life shouldn't be this way. i think about the iroquois nation, their name meant 'people who are building a longhouse' and their philosophy was the best mankind knows, to always be in a community, modern capitalism and american culture has destroyed people's communities here, and there are so many people in pain because of it. lack of community is the root of most problems in the world. biologically humans must relate with each other to function properly. people don't know or care and take their relationships for granted, and i know i am getting sick from loneliness but have a hard time finding any sense of community. i went through schizophrenia in my early twenties and it was very terrible. i recovered which i am proud of but no one wants to know or cares. sometimes i think i will die soon and not ever know what it's like to be with a women who likes me. and then to be surrounded by so many people who have that in spades and take it for granted makes me sad. i don't know what to do because i feel like things are getting worse.


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By anonymous at 31,Mar,12 11:01

Your probably too nice, despite what girls say they like jerks, act uninterested and make the chase you, give a compliment, then insult in a teasing way. Be an ass it works
By anonymous at 31,Mar,12 11:24

Maybe join a community group doing something you like, chances are you'll meet people of all walks of life and they like the same thing. It is hard these days to meet people but you've just got to try. I moved to a different state after a long term relationship... and yes to be able to relate is important however I find that it is difficult, it makes me miss all my friends at home. Once you find friends who get along with you, they might have friends who are similar and you build a relationship from then on. Don't know if it works for guys as well but exercise helps calm the urges... Good luck, cheer up, you got this!! ^^
By anonymous at 31,Mar,12 23:59

Great idea
By anonymous at 01,Apr,12 01:05, I always find it helpful to write it down, feel free to email me. :)

By anonymous at 31,Mar,12 15:56

You don't know how to get laid. You need to follow the rules of Leykis 101 and start listening to the Tom Leykis show.

Leykis 101

By anonymous at 01,Apr,12 05:52

Turn gay dude. There are heaps of lonely gay men on the internet maybe you can find one. Girls today suck. Don't trust em.

By anonymous at 01,Apr,12 10:47

It sounds to me that you have nothing interesting to talk about; why would someone want to talk to you? What interests you? Find people who share your interests and they will talk to you. Go to college or grad school if you aren't sure and you'll learn something new and meet new people.

By anonymous at 01,Apr,12 12:51

Hi...ill help u...i was in the same me

By anonymous at 01,Apr,12 17:52

I've only been in love once and was not able to display my emotions I have friends but they all cannot communicate on a level that I can. I feel so aleinated and alone. Now I feel like I'm falling for an older woman but she is going to get married and would never consider me as anything more then a friend and it sucks to be a youth. I 've never even been in a short term relationship and have never even gotten laid and I'm 20 it sucks I agree those people who do find mates typically males, I am a male, take it for granted nice guys finish last all women want is the arrogant deutch bag, chuvistic, macho jerk who treats them bad even the more progressive women subconsciously seek these traits even though they tell you they don't.

By anonymous at 01,Apr,12 23:27

Difficult as this seems, the best way to be comfortable with other people is to be comfortable with yourself. You are uncomfortable about being lonely, and this causes other people to feel uncomfortable around you. You might wish to try various hobbies or activities until you find one you like. You may find that you can have a good time. When you no longer have needs that other people have to meet, they will be comfortable with you. Don't ever try to meet people because you feel lonley, be open to meet them if they wish, because you are interested in them as people, and this goes for people who would not be suitable as romantic interests as well. When you finally reach the point where you truly no longer feel you have to meet someone, you will.

By anonymous at 02,Apr,12 14:38

Self-confidence in men is the most attractive feature! Second is their ability to protect; third is their intellect.
I would recommend you to concentrate at things you are good and remarkable at and WORK on YOUR SELF IMAGE.
1. You are fought your decease with positive result. It takes a LOT of WILL POWER!
2. You are caring. (As you say you CARE about your family) That means you would CARE even more about YOUR OWN.
3. YOU are INQUISITIVE. A brain that is SEARCHING has a GREAT CAPACITY TO LEARN! Use your ENERGY (which you have obviously plenty) to become whom you want to be. You are so young and can do a lot not only for yourself but for others. Find some role models. Most of LEADERS are NOT ORDINARY people!
4. Get yourself A JOB that PUSHES YOU UP! Where you get the RESPONSIBILITY that INSPIRES YOU!
Get a HOBBY that INSPIRES YOU and EXCELL IN IT! Why NOT to involve in COMMUNITY AFFAIRS yourself and produce some VALUE.
5. When you will have a FULL LIFE with yourself it will SHINE through! And it would by FAR be much more ATTRACTIVE then any apperance. The best is that you would feel GOOD with YOURSELF!

By anonymous at 02,Jun,13 20:44

PLEASE PROTECT YOURSELF when picking up prostitutes. Its not a very good idea to pick them up in the first place. But then again I'm not a male. The ppl above gave u some good advice.

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