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why am i such a loser

Posted by loser guy at April 13, 2012
Tags: 2012 April  Attitude  Sociopathy

I'm 24 am i've never had any girlfriend in my entire life..i struggle in my education..all my friends have graduated and have decent job while i'm still living on my parent's parents sacrifice everything for my education but yet i'm still stuck in college..and I come from a poor family..i hate my life,myself and i feel as if i don't have any purpose in this world..people make fun of me as i don't have any girlfriend even a female girlfriend. Plus people hate to be around me as i'm not fun, stupid and depressed.I have severe social anxiety problems and its getting worse every day up to the limit where i don't think i should live in this world...i cannot speak in public, even have a decent conversation with a girl...i,ve tried many ebooks on cd on how to be confident, happy but none has worked so far...i'm a loser and will always be...i feel depressed since 5 years ago and the only solution i can think of is by committing suicide..maybe the world will be a happy place without me...

sorry for my crappy english


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By anonymous at 13,Apr,12 21:24

you cant be that down on yourself. We all have a purpose, but for some of us it takes longer to find what that purpose is. Doing some volunteer work or helping others is what really allowed myself to open up and be happy. Bringing joy to others is great way to bring happiness to yourself. I know you are feeling really lost right now, but death is not the answer.
By anonymous at 13,Apr,12 23:30

The above poster makes a very good point. Bro, there are tons of people who would be so grateful and excited to have you in their life. Get into some volunteer work and help change the lives of others. That is something that you can take pride in and find purpose. Volunteering also allows you to meet likeminded people, including solid women.

By anonymous at 14,Apr,12 01:56

Dude...when I was 24 I thought I had it all figured out. Now I'm 46 and I can't believe how my thinking has changed. You have to follow your heart and do what makes you happy and follow your dream. Don't live someone else's dream... I mean, college is okay for some people... but listen to your heart, maybe it wants to really just get out there and live. Sometimes you got to say enough is enough when it comes to knowledge... even the bible says "with much knowledge comes much sorrow...LIVE... I want to strap on a backpack and hit the road with my dog, who by the way, loves me unconditionally...My youngest son is in his last year of high school and I'm out of here, PLEASE don't give up:)

By anonymous at 14,Apr,12 08:01

Ha ha ha.......very nice. commit suicide what is there in that.But one thing do you think your neighbours gonna remember you after your death or do you think they would appreciate you for your suicide.For who's happiness are you dying yours or your neighbours.If you die you would escape from all the suffering happily.but think of your you think your neighbours are gonna look about are the one who has to look at them in their old age right.o.k.Now coming to your life.if you want to excel in your studies you just forget about the people who are laughing at you and concentrate on your studies.keep your heart in your nothing is more important for you in this world.not your neighbours and nobody.and coming to girls , they will come in your way once you are doing well
P.S:- I was in this phase once in my life when i was in my 18's.i almost committed suicide but stopped at the last second.after that i never even thought of committing suicide what ever situation i faced.i faced the worst experiences after that.after that i got a seat in med school. there i loved a girl for 4yrs.she too loved me.after that she left me and was with one of my classmate infront of me.i cried daily for 2yrs for i'm 25 and doctor. and till my last breath i would never commit suicide.and i'm now also my life sucks otherwise i wouldn't have seen this site.
Sorry for this long lecture and take care. and there is lot you have to enjoy in your future.
What ever field failures are common.keep your heart in whatever you do.HARDWORK PAYS 100% true.
There is saying ""Show me a person who has not done any mistake in a day.I'll show you a person who has not done anything in a day"" I donno who said it but its true.
Don't just keep cursing yourself for your mistakes but try to rectify them.and there there TALK LESS WORK MORE

By anonymous at 14,Apr,12 12:02

Commiting suicide will not solve anything so don't try it. You're still young and have your WHOLE life ahead of you. The earlier comments are right. Maybe you should try volunteering work. That way you might find your purpose in life.

By anonymous at 14,Apr,12 17:12

Just let things go and not hold on to the thoughts of your perceived failures. I know this is harder to do than to say but you've got to admit we still have it alot better than like 90% of the world. Do something small but good for the world around you and try to see the positive side of things (again easier to say than to do...why do you think I am at this website? bc frusterated with my own life I went "I hate my life" into google and found this and realized- you know...we all hate someting or a lot of things in our lives - but if we really want to and if we let go of the little things that bug us things can be better)

I was about to complain about my own troubles but somehow encouraging others makes me feel better than complaining about myself.

Good luck:)

By Truth at 14,Apr,12 19:01

You could try the suicide angle, but the most likely outcome would be that you fuck it up, because you're just that fucking stupid. You'd be like that guy who tried to shoot himself like 4 times and missed enough every time that he's still alive but has like 1/3 of a head and an open feeding hole.

You'd have to go on Oprah and she'd say Hey why did you do it? From the look of 1/3 of your original face it was probably a close race between you and a toilet seat as to who got more ass...and then you'd be like NGhhAAARRGGLLE NY HAM NAW NGUUUURFGREND AN SO I SHNAWT NGYSELF FNOR NIMES GGRRAAGGRGGGLE.

And then Oprah would be like...interesting, so how does the feeding hole work and then a fat ugly nurse comes out and drips in a few teaspoons of some grey gruel looking shit and it bubbles and burps its way down your feeding tube.

But the rest of your body still looks normal, which just makes the whole thing look even more weird. Steven Hawking gets more pussy than you.

So you might want to reconsider the whole suicide thing. If not, though, I can't wait for Oprah!
By anonymous at 15,Apr,12 00:46

you should do stand up comedy

By anonymous at 15,Apr,12 09:26

Don't give up man. I'm in a similar situation.

By anonymous at 18,Apr,12 03:12

Really feel for you man. I can identify with so much of what you say. Don't give up though that's what I keep trying to tell myself too,

By anonymous at 03,May,12 16:18

um the same situation, the same feelings and i hate my life too, sometimes i wish death but i will never suicide ...
man you are not alone ... keep trying to survive

By anonymous at 28,Nov,12 00:30

Ya I know how you feel.... It fucking sucks

By anonymous at 21,Dec,12 23:43

dude u should die man that would be so funny loser hahaha yo have no friend dork

By anonymous at 11,Jan,13 19:49

The guy that posted on the 12 of dec. Wow you enjoy trolling and kicking someone when they are down. Someday you'll be weak, and because you are so mean spirited no one will show you sympathy and compassion. You stupid cunt little boy.

By anonymous at 17,Jan,13 18:37

you should just kill yourself. it doesnt matter. death is an illusion. you'll quickly realize how much better the 5th dimension is over this pathetic 3rd dimension. you will reincarnate and have a do over in life. just do it. i am going to very soon. as soon as i find a home for my cat.

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