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Loneliness and Sadness

Posted by Adam Ortega (California) at April 19, 2012
Tags: 2012 April  Attitude  Loneliness

Hi all,
I was doing a search online for a bible phrase and I just happened upon this site. I didnt even get a chance to fully read anyone's post but I did notice the posts were recent and made some really saddening statements.

So I felt compelled to say a little something. I have been through quite a bit in my life. It seems like Murphy's Law that what can go wrong did. Either through my own fault or some inconsiderate doing of others. Either way I have always managed to work through it and believe me when I say I have been at the very very bottom in life and below many others woes. So dont take my lows lightly.

What Im trying to say is that we can and will get through this. My strength was the LORD and I pray that you all have the same.

Even now my life is not peaches and cream but I have peace and I have joy. Joy for the peace that I have and peace for the joy that I have. Its that simple.

I believe that sometime we need to be just a bit selfish and do what makes us happy. We live in an imperfect world and we all fall short of the glory of GOD. Meaning none of us are perfect and we all sin. So we cannot try to be perfect and we cannot allow others to constantly wrong us. We need to do what we have to to make our world what we would like it to be.

In doing so Im sure others will enjoy the world in which we built. So we really are not being selfish at all. We are just taking charge and showing them something that they may have never been able to envision.

One warning though. There will always be those who will hurt and harm you and there will always be those who dont appreciate the things you do and want to destroy it all.

So be aware of this at all time and prepare yourself. No one can fool us. We allow others to take advantage of us and we choose NOT to see what is going on. It isnt until they have totally ruined us and leave us that we admit it and say I should have dont this or that.

So dont allow yourself to be treated like that. Believe me it isnt worth the temporary false comfort they may bring you.

I love you all and I wish I could give you all a big hug and hold your hands through it all.

May GOD bless you and may you look to HIM for all things.


PS. If you would like to talk or chat Im all for that. I love to fellowship.


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By anonymous at 20,Apr,12 09:01

Ortega sounds like a mexican surname to me. At any rate, i appreciate your comment it makes me feel a little better and put my currently sucky life into perspective. Though i'm not a very religious person myself i still can relate somehow. Pretty sure it will make somebody else's day as well. :)

By Got the answer at 21,Apr,12 21:57

You need a good hobby. Something healthy and rewarding. Do you have your medical marijuana card yet? If not get one pronto. Stay stoned. Remember, life does suck.

By anonymous at 22,Aug,12 00:46

This person is a lunatic and biggot. This is not a good christian and certainly NOT aligned with Christ. This person is a fraud and a sociopath who is probably also bi-polar (hence the preaching)...FYI

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