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Lonely: student

Posted by anonymous at April 22, 2012
Tags: 2012 April  Loneliness

I'm a 21 years old young woman, a student, obese and I feel very lonely. I know I have ''a whole life ahead of me'', but I feel lonely. I never really had any relationship with a man before. Not even a decent friendship, let alone a serious one. I long for a serious relationship, but I haven't met anybody yet. I've never fallen in love before. Yes, I felt butterflies when there was a ''at first glance potential'' person, but it never was possible afterwards. (With potential I mean age and vibe that might work, just less than basic)
The problem is, because I never had any looks, talks with someone potential as a partner (don't get me started on lusty looks from married 50+ year old men), I start feeling there is something wrong with me. I feel so much more ugly, I feel so much more stupid, just so much less attractive. All my friends have had or are in a relationship, yet I haven't at all and since men is all they can talk about, it hurts a lot. I'm dieting to get healthier, but I wasn't always this obese.

This is definitely not the saddest story, It's not even near the end of the world problem, but it still sucks. It still affects me, I'm still getting depressed at times. It affects my grades and future career quite negatively. Some advice to deal with it would be nice, Thanx.


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By anonymous at 22,Apr,12 19:49

I know how you feel I am the same ...what I did was try online dating. Even if you don't find someone to be serious with it's a lot of fun to chat with guys and go on dates
Best wishes
Good luck

By anonymous at 22,Apr,12 20:21

Im in the same situation, its a hard place to be. Im 22 and have never dated. The right person is out there for us

By anonymous at 22,Apr,12 21:10

Lose that weight and get a makeover.

By anonymous at 23,Apr,12 00:21

Don't be depressed about not being in a relationship. It will come someday. You need feel positive and confident and it will come to happen. When you are vulnerable this way you may find the wrong man and have a whole lot other issues to deal with. Looks aren't everything and your special someone is waiting out there for you.

By anonymous at 23,Apr,12 01:03

pues sabes en primera no te sientas mal y no te sientas rara por no tener aun no experiencia de pareja en cuestion sentimental simplemente no te has enamorado aun no ha llegado la persona para ti y en verdad aveces estar deprimida hace que tengamos una mala decision por creer que no habra alguien mas adelante el pensar positivo y ver la vida de otra forma ayude igualmente yo no tengo relacion con nadien aun de tipo sentimental pero eso no me hace menos ni mas simplemente no me a llegado el amor aveces suele ser frustrante pero es algo normal no te desesperes cuidate mucho si quieres platicar con alguien igualmente aqui estamos para ayudar atte gene22 no todo tiene que ser negro cuando existe un gris un azul y un blanco ANIMO!!!!!
By at 23,Apr,12 04:01

Translation: Go suck a cock you fucking cunt. You're a waste of oxygen and i hope you get skullfucked by a jobless nigaboo fucken dickweasel.

By anonymous at 23,Apr,12 09:49

I've never been in love, and yes it feels lonely. I hate my personality, awkward and and hard to talk to. It feels like no ones is going to love me for who I am. But despite that I haven't given up on love.

By anonymous at 23,Apr,12 09:51

@ Willy

Don't hide your own insecuries by putting others down.
By anonymous at 27,Apr,12 18:29


By anonymous at 23,Apr,12 09:53

You are beautiful, no matter what they say. Don't let words bring you down
By anonymous at 27,Apr,12 18:29

really...why not just tell her to listen to the song loser

By anonymous at 23,Apr,12 10:43

I'm a guy.
just want to let you know not all guys like super model type.
in my case, I like girls physically on the plump side.
they don't turn me on otherwise.
I'm not ugly and quite fit.

what I'm trying to say is please keep trying.
go out more, enjoy life, be confident. Let your personality shines through.
there is a match for everyone in this world. You just haven't met him yet.

By anonymous at 23,Apr,12 11:04

Unfortunately society today expects people to fit a certain mold. IF you are outside that mold, you are considered ugly. weird, loser, etc..

By L at 23,Apr,12 11:26

go out more,talk with people,there are so many lonely boys too.i am in same situation,i am lonely
but i don't really want a relationship,good luck

By at 26,Apr,12 18:18

Thanx for the positive comments everybody! (also the Spanish anonymous writer, I know you wrote something positive as much as I could understand, unlike the other ''translator'') You are right! Stay positive, keep hope, go out more, be patient and don't make yourself vulnerable for this. I wish you all the best and all the love!

By anonymous at 02,May,12 15:27

There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.

By Anissa at 21,May,12 22:16

Darling, Do not consider of such negativity that isn't true or even neccessary Please, do not change your appearance because of such thoughts. Trust me, im only 16 years old, but I always have been lonely since no boys like me cause im not easy but I know im not ugly so neither are you. Dont let this continue because you're missing out on life. There IS someone truly special waiting out there for you. It takes time and patience, Hun. I know it's painful too be alone but go out more, show confidence, BE FREE AND YOURSELF! Just keep holding on. It will be worth it. Enjoy life while you still can... Just be yourself and enjoy life. Someone will notice you. You're unique

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