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Posted by JM at June 4, 2012
Tags: 2012 June  Relationship

I am 32 and my wife has decided that she doesn't want to be my wife any more. This would be a lot easier if we didn't have a 2 1/2 year old and a 1 year old. She wants to split them up, the youngest living with me. I don't want to split our boys up, but feel if I fight it it will just make things worse. Maybe this is normal but I feel like this is the end of the world and my boys will never have a good life now. At least there will be some sort of joint custody where they get to see each other... I grew up only seeing my dad every other weekend. Me and my dad are not close at all and it sucks. He is alone now too because my Step Mother just passed away in December.

Oh yeah, and last thanksgiving I found out I have cancer. Had to go through Chemo and Radiation (at least my wife was there for me then) Had surgery to remove it in February and was stuck at the hospital for 6 and a half weeks due to complications. Dealing with Chemo again now until November. Would be the worst 12 months of my life if it wasn't for the birth of my 1 year old last May.

I am bottled up inside and had to write this somewhere. Not expecting any responses, just need to tell someone. Out friends and families don't know yet.

I'd gladley raise both the boys myself but I believe that they need a mom in their lives too, even if I don't agree with some of her parenting techniques.

It all seems like a nightmare and I just want to wake up.


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By anonymous at 10,Jun,12 17:39

Wow that's sucks huh. Well I'm not good at giving advice but I'll try my best. Talk to your wife and tell her that it's not the best thing to do right now. I agree 100% that the children does need to stay together as siblings. Sorry that you have the C word, I hate saying it, but this the time that you and your dad needs to settle differences. You sound like a great person and a caring dad, so talk to your wife and see can you both come to a agreement, even if it means you both stay in the same house but sleeps in different bedrooms, just for the children sake.


By at 11,Jun,12 00:18

Even if you can't stay together there is no reason why you both can't share both the kids. As long as you can stay civil and not fight in front of your kids that would work. Thats pretty low her leaving after you get sick. I guess "in sickness and in health" just doesnt matter to some people anymore. What kind of cancer do you have?


By anonymous at 11,Jun,12 02:25

I feel sorry for you
stay strong


By anonymous at 11,Jun,12 09:32

Do not split the kids it will not turn out well. I was raised split and I never see my brother, we hardly know each other.


By anonymous at 11,Jun,12 19:12

Hey you gotta be strong, it happened to me too She probably is seeing someone else right now, don't expect her to tell you she is mine lied through her teeth until after and it was all said and done. Can you be strong enough to stay cool while the women you love is doing sexual favors for another man and that she gets excited by him and will give herself to him any way imaginable?this part hits the hardest but it does pass in say.... 5 years or so. Don't ask question like" is his bigger than mine" because we know she wouldn't be with him if he was smaller than you. Just gotta embrace it and be there for the child, she'll let you have him on week-end and when you go to pick him up, she'll be dress to the tens and look like a million bucks.....and you'll want her, she's going out with the girls for two nights and your child caring. Embrace it, just do the best you can


By anonymous at 13,Jun,12 10:42

Can't make it go away but I can make you go away.


By anonymous at 14,Jun,12 00:57

I have to agree, it seems when women hit 36 to 40 they can turn from a once monogamous type to a bitch in heat. It's like if they married young and never experienced sexual encounters with men the want to do a lifetime of missing it in 6 months. She may be having a threesome with two brothers as we speak. Once it all sinks in and she has done her thing she will ask you to come back.and you will take her back cause you love her. She will come around, be a little more experienced for you as well.


By anonymous at 16,Jun,12 01:41

Sorry to say but from what's written, if a mother can give here kids up to the father these things written about her my br true


By anonymous at 16,Jun,12 01:45

If a wife starts to get brazilians or clean shaves her pussy that is also a good sign especially if you did not ask her to.


By James Ortell at 18,Jun,12 21:25

Hey above comment so true, I was seeing a married women we met online and had encounters she would do anything for me, I stated I liked no hair downstairs and the next time we met at a hotel she was as soft and beautiful as smooth moist ivory. She still had sex with her hubby so I wonder what he thought, weird you mentioned that, someone said a girl named cursed shave the entirety of her pubic area. I want to get to know her


By anonymous at 25,Jun,12 23:22

i agree, don't split up the kids. Fight for custody! Not her, but the court is always harder on guys. It is not too much to ask. You can't take one kid and not the other, that's not fair. I'm sorry about the cancer. I volunteer at a clinic and i know the nightmare you are going through. Look into alternative medicine and start drinking 3 cups of green tea a day. Find a way to make peace with your emotions. You owe it to yourself to start a new page.


By anonymous at 03,Sep,12 00:53

My wife also decided all of a sudden that she just wanted a do divorce I thought we had something special but then she started going out all the time and lying to me and ended up telling me we never had anything special. I have a 6 ye old step daughter and a 2 ye old son with her and my step daughter doesn't always want to come with and it is just not the life I wanted or wanted for my kids I wanted to raise them together in a loving home with parents together buy one can only do so much I tried my hardest I showed her unconditional love even after she cheated on me I would do anything for her I still love her but my main priority is my children. I just wanted to say I feel ur pain when stuff happens that is totally out of ur control and u feel so helpless and wonder why,why is this happening to me what did I do to deserve this?


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