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    Broken heart

    Posted by anonymous at December 31, 2011
    Tags: 2011 December   Relationship

    My life is not as bad as most people here but:/ it's New Years Eve and I'm sitting here thinking about my ex who broke up with me 3 weeks ago:( he's soo happy and I think already had a new girlfriend:'( it really hurts sooo much! It's so hard to keep the tears In and I can literally feel my heart hurting. I loved him so much and I thought he loved me.. How could it be so easy for him to just forget=\ all I wanna do is cry and cry .. It really hurts and I really love him... I don't know what to do anymore and I don't know how to stop thinking about him... While everyone is having a great New Years Even I'm over here praying and hoping that I can just forget about him too...


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    Horrible things that happen to you are not as bad as they can be!

    Posted by Noone at December 31, 2011
    Tags: Abuse   Childhood   2011 December

    I was born June 3, 1988. I am now 23 years old. I was adopted by my family when I was six years old. My biological parents were killed in a store robbery. Life as far as I can remeber was great. I was cared for, and felt loved and happy. But then my sunny days darkened at the age of nine, I was raped by my dads best friend. I remeber crying alot, and not letting anyone touch me. Once my parents got tired of not getting through to me they took me to a child's doctor. I was never the same but the day came when I could hug my dad and not scream. I was eleven when things turned bad again. My parents were killed in a car accident, leaveing me and my brothers in foster care we were split up.
    It wasnt but a few weeks until I was put into a foster familys house, where I was raped and molsted again and again and again. I hated my self and a few weeks before my 12th birthday, I took a stake knife and cut my arm all the way up. When I was found they bandaged my arm up, and I got beat for doing it. The kid at school who had always bullied me, grabbed my arm the next day, when the blood seeped through, he started holloering for the teacher, (guess he wasnt all bad).
    I was put back into foster care, when I was 13 I was sent to a family, who said they wanted me. Life with them was ok, they were sweet and loving, but they were not my family, and by then I had figured out what a tragaty I was to people. Eight months before my 15th birthday I was raped again, this time by a man w...

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    i have no friends

    Posted by anonymous at December 31, 2011
    Tags: 2011 December   Friendship

    I have a few friends and we rarely hang out and when we do it's just not fun at all and I don't like them.. but it was really hard for me to get them (it took a couple years) and I'm socially awkward so it's hard for me to make friends but i cant help it thats how i am and im doing nothing on new years eve and i spend all my money on cute clothes i like and expensive makeup and i spend time on my hair and eat healthy and go on runs but then i just realized why the fuck should i? theres no one to impress, i just do all this shit and then i sit at home and its so fucking boring and even if i desperately ask people if they want to hang out theres just no one and i have no social life no love life and i feel like no one actually likes me at all and iv cried myself to sleep over my insecurites (body, face, hair) and then just start crying harder when i realize i dont have any friends so why should it matter anyway? i know it seems like it could be worse, but you dont know what its like to just have no one.. just sit at home all day, come home from school and have no one to talk to about anything, no one who will ever want to go see a movie, or go shopping, or just sit around and do nothing with you. everyone has some sort of best friend that will do anything with them, that theyr always doing something with and everyone takes that for granted. they dont know what its like to have no one...


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    Not a kid anymore

    Posted by Bad girl at December 31, 2011
    Tags: 2011 December   Juvenile problems

    I'm 18. My parents treat me like a baby. I can't even stay home alone, still. Everyday i am getting yelled at by them about silly stuff like cleaning my room. Why should they care about my stuff i think i know how i live. Also, aside of my parents i am always bored i missed my favorite tv show that is now canceled. Its not one you can watch in pieces on youtube. I dont have many friends who live close enough to hang out with almost everyday. I want to die.


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    bad luck and trouble

    Posted by henry s. at December 31, 2011
    Tags: 2011 December   Health   Money   Philosophical   Relationship

    i'm 45 years old, unemployed, separated, and about to go through a divorce.

    i couldn't believe how well things were going in 1999-2000, the .com internet days! I had stock options worth over $4,000,000, just been married for 2 years, had a nice, new home with bright prospects for the future.

    now, i'm over $100,000 in debt. i've failed at starting my own business, found out my wife had a sexual affair outside the sacred bonds of marriage, been diagnosed with mild depression, can't find a job, probably am about to lose my car, and the self-pity story goes on and on...

    how did i find myself in this predicament? can things get any worse? probably. but then i think about cancer-survivor lance armstrong who came back from death to win the tour de france an unprecedented 7 consecutive times! sure, he's been accused of taking drugs, but has he? i don't think so. after all, in america, we are presumed innocent until proven guilty. such inspiration in lance armstrong's story.

    also, i've been diagnosed with attention deficit disorder, slightly obese, and out-of-shape. my doctor wants me to lose about 20 pounds as my goal. so, i guess i gotta cut out the cheese and other fatty foods when i go to harris teeter with my vic card... oh well

    will my problems ever cease? probably, not. i hope i'm not being too whiny, but you-know sometimes i get down, y know. it happens. and it is very slightly therapeutic to vent anonymously on the internet.

    oh well, dog bless! and happy new year!

    keep the faith! strenth and honor! what we do echoes in eternity!


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    It's not so bad!

    Posted by DownNotAut. at December 31, 2011
    Tags: 2011 December   Money

    I am in agreement, life sucks. Most certainly. People deal with it in different ways, my way is to try to fix it and constantly work at it.
    This seems to work, I'd suggest doing this. Mostly it comes down to money.
    I have £12 to my name right now. £12 in all the world. This is because my rent's gone out for this month and my student loan isn't due to drop in til the 9th Jan. I'm aware this isn't true debt, but even though I'm a student, if I have no money, I don't eat. It's as simple as that.
    ^.^ I intend to get a job as soon as someone will hire me. In the meantime there are good deals to be had at closing time in the supermarkets (if you like swede or gone off cake). I have somewhere to sleep at night, and although I can't really afford heating, there's a duvet and blankets in my flat so it's not that bad :) candles are great and very cheap. Heat AND light.

    Look on the bright side ^.^ work hard and don't waste money/time on stuff that isn't beneficial to you (like cigarettes, alcohol, betting, drugs etc).
    One day I want to be able to afford to have a baby and look after it ^.^
    I'm studying nuclear physics, so hopefully being poor is a temporary thing, but the threat of not being able to eat certainly is a good motivation to study!


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    untitled story

    Posted by anonymous at December 31, 2011
    Static LinkTags: Attitude   2011 December   Juvenile problems

    Im nitish 19 years old. I live in mathura,U.P,india. My life sucks me everytime.y self confidence is very low n I think my life fucks me at every possible moment. Im in my graduation 2nd yr have many frenz but half of them arr back stabbers . I know some girs but no one likes me . I think im a dumbass n only know nothing thatswhy no one likes me. And the fuckin icing on my lifes bullshit is money . At the end I dont have a girlfriend coz I dont have money. I have frenz living royal life coz their fathergives them loads of money. They have self confidence ,personaity ,good looks , talent n I have nothing . Simply nothing. What I have is an over caring family who suck my mind ,a small brother whoz a pain in my ass and not to forget my second hand scooter which sucks my mind even more when I see a a brand new bike of my friend . N my mind blows even mire when at the back seat there is a beautiful girl.the old year id jus ending n hoping for the best for the new year.... I know my life doesnt have difficulties or im not handicapped etc but still I cant handle this pain. Every single girl I approach dumps me or mar me jus a friend. I dont know what to do . I know nothing other than bullshit I do nothing other than asking for money from my parents. I feel disgusting..


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    I'm poor, never sleep, and addicted to pain killers

    Posted by anonymous at December 31, 2011
    Tags: Addictions   2011 December   Health   Unemployment

    Well my story is diffrent from alot. I lived in Florida got my degree and moved to Mississippi to start a TV carrer. I loved TV was so happy, making and saving money. A couple of years ago I got offered my TV dream job in Colorado, I quit my job in MS and flew to CO, when I got to my new employer I was only to pass a drug test to start work, I was clean then. When I arrived I found the young guy at the TV station who told me I had a job informed me he gave the job to a young hot girl with big boobs. I flew back to MS to try to get my old job back, but I was too late. Its been 3.5 years since then. I look for work all day and all night, but the little town in MS I'm in is dying. No new jobs just places closing its doors. The money I saved for retirement is almost gone. With no insurance I lost my ability to go to the doctor for my scoliosis so I had to get medication from other than legal ways. The meds I used to take where non addictive, but you can't find those on the street, so pain killers it was. Then I got so board my house became a prison to me, so I started taking them to pass the time. Now Im hopelessly addicted. I even went to school and became an EMT because the hospital here had 16 job openings, when I became and EMT they had none. I still look for work, but know spend about 18 hours a day in bed. Sometimes I think life just is not worth living. All I have is my cat he has been my savior. He is 13 and I know he won't be around much longer. I don't know what I will do when he is gone. Well thats my story not as bad as some but its my personal hell. I'm stuck in a dying town with no work and one friend who is also a hopeless addict.


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    die slow or fast??

    Posted by anonymous at December 31, 2011
    Tags: 2011 December   Job

    well guess what my life sucks. i have no frieds no car no money and soon no home i was bad at school but wen senor year ended i got a job changing oil. one day i put a pig of a truck on a lift the tools started sliding till all the weight was at the back of the car and it fell off the lift sigh. i dont have that job any more. wen i turnd 20 i went on a mission my family paid for half of it but i only lasted seven months i coudnt stand it so i came home my mom now hates me thinks ive ruind my life but shes mostly responsible for that well part any way. managed to get another job working for some plumers they worked the sit out of me in the middle of december in below frezzing wether but i was more bothered by my bosses heated temper .after three days i had blisters and so sore i couldnt lift a think i told my boss he just said i was full of shit and said young people dont wont to work these days.i wasnt physicaly unable to do it so i quite. now my mom has told me to move out again (man im sick of hearing it) and this time theres no fooling. i have no where to go all be 21 in FEB 2012 i plan on buying a gun and blowing my usless brain cells all over my short week body. i always struggeld in school but i wish i would of tried a bit harder but God doesnt give re-do's


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    Never had friends

    Posted by Angelface at December 30, 2011
    Tags: 2011 December   Loneliness   Relationship

    All my life I have been alone. I never really had anyone to call my friend. Everyone I hung out with were just associates, not really anyone I could confide in. When was in elementary school I was always the one who was bullied. So, I always thought there was something wrong with me because no one ever liked me. I was always being called ugly and bald headed. Even today as an adult my life has not changed. I am married but, I really do not think my husband likes me let alone loves me. He never has sex with me or ever tells me I am pretty or sexy. I think it's just a convience for him right now until he finds someone better. but, anyways i sometimes wish i was dead. but i only keep going because of my two beautiful children.


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    This Fucked Up Life of Mine

    Posted by Eli Kange at December 30, 2011
    Tags: Childhood   2011 December   Family   Justice

    I am 17 year old. My name is Eli Kange, and this is my story. When I was 2, my Mom died in a car crash. Some drunk bastard hit her from the back and she dies. I loved her so much. My brother is about 5 years older than me, and life for us went swimmingly until, when I was 5, my Dad was found guilty for drug possesion and driving without a license. But what actually happened was, my Dad's friend was drunk so Dad took the wheel. He was speeding a little, and when the cops pulled him over they found 13 lbs. of cocain that belonged to my Dad's friend. So the friend was found innocent and my Dad went to jail and will not be out for 28 years. So we went to stay with my Uncle Nathan. He was an actuall crackhead. We moved out when I was 11 and we were put into foster care together. When he was 17, he got a girl named Angie pregnent. She was so nice. I lived with them and my neice, Halie, for a while. When my brother was 20 and Angie was 19, she went to collage in Africa. And a year later, he was sent to jail for use of ecstasy and weed. So here I am, 17 with a 5 year old girl to take care of and remt to pay. There are far more worse situations out there, but for me, my life fucking sucks.


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    divorce

    Posted by morgan at December 30, 2011
    Tags: 2011 December   Relationship

    This is why my life sucks so bad! when i was about 13 i found out that my mom was dating my best friends dad! she was married and i was surprised that when my dad found out he didnt just leave. anyway, she always told me that it was over between her and that guy. but they always got in contact with each other and said how much they missed each other. it made me really pissed off and i wanted to die! she lied to me constantly and my dad and didnt care about anyone but herself! she sort of went crazy after a while. later on her and my dad made a bet thing and it was that if my mom would stop texting and talking her "boyfriend" then my dad would have to stop telling him to leave us alone. obviously my mom and that guy still got in connection! they would talk and tell each other how much they miss each other and stupid crap like that. one day when we were all having a good time my dad checked my moms phone and saw that he texted my mom. my dad was ticked and text the guy and said "thanks a lot you son-of-a bitch!" my mom was so mad that he said that to him that she said she was done and she ended it! now i feel like i have no one to talk to and the worst part about it is that my moms supposed to be ex-boyfriend lives a house away! no i bet that they will get together! i hate my life and i hate what my mom and dad have done to me!!!


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    untitled story

    Posted by anonymous at December 30, 2011
    Static LinkTags: 2011 December   Philosophical

    the truth is people including ur family dont care. i've been extremly sad for a very long time (since i was 16 now im 29) the thing ive noticed about people is that they just get fed up of being around depressed people it brings them down they dont want to think about upsetting things. my friends all dropped like flies when i wasnt all smiles or the "life and soul of the party" it could just be me being cinical, maybe when u become introverted people just stop noticing u. latley ive just been hiding my extreme depths of sadness and the funny thing is people now do see me but its all a lie it just shows the shallowness of people so i stop going out because just being around them makes me feel almost physcally sick but then im alone all the time which in turn makes me more sad because i actually do want some kind of human contact its just one big circle of crap, where does it end lol cant be a good end can it?!


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    untitled story

    Posted by anonymous at December 30, 2011
    Static LinkTags: Attitude   2011 December

    My life sucks for many trivial reasons that a normally equipped person would be able to handle. My job is stressful, my relationship sucks, he cheats on me and treats me like shit yet I moroniclly still love him. He bought me a huge ring so I agreed to mary him and we bought a house. Now I'm far away from my family and friends and living in hell. We never have a good night anymore it's constant fighting and stress. I don't know anyone here and I'm stuck now. I cry all the time and I'm miserable. A stronger person would be able to handle this situation with no pain but I am not a normal person. I am not equipped with the normal capacities to handle adversity. I truly believe that I am not cut out for this life and I was never meant to live as long as I have. I am destined to leave this life early.


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    devoid!

    Posted by decemberschild. at December 30, 2011
    Tags: Attitude   2011 December   Failure

    everything is a struggle for me, i never seem to fit in nowhere all the people i know on facebook seemingly have perfect lives , or at least perfect for them, i have not had a friend in years , i am thirty seven and all through my life i just never seem to get it right.have been in this relationship for three years and i just feel so inadequate as person compared to him, he has it all, friends calling him , wanting him , needing him, he has some good family members and two amazing children , that incidentally do not live with him, but still adore him!he has money too!........ me on the other hand have barely anybody calling me or texting me or anything, no job i am practically unemployable, have a chronic fatigue condition and feel like my brain is shrivelling up and my daughter who is ten years old hates me and i admit i cannot be a good mother!plus my family abandoned me when i was sixteen, my brother just about cares!life really does suck!my daughter has not seen me in four years, it hurts so badly, i feel like i have failed everyone and its only a matter of time, i do not have enough left in my soul to keep on living my body is past its sell by date, my life is meant to be shortened i am sure, give it to someone else that deserves life, that can make the best of it, i know i cannnot!


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    When will I ever be happy.

    Posted by anonymous at December 30, 2011
    Tags: Anxiety   2011 December   Loneliness

    My life was always pretty lonely. I didn't have many friend my mom would always cry because everytime she picked me up from school I was hanging out alone. That situation sort of improved as I got older, I was still sort of a loner but I hung out with people more. At 16 I started developing depression but I wasn't aware of what was going on. I made friends with this girl who had schizoaffective disorder, and we remained friends until my first year of college. Right around the time of graduation I started developing hypochondria. It started getting really really bad I had to go to the hospital for a panic attack I went to many doctors who all said I was perfectly healthy even though I felt like I was dying. Everytime I get sick now I start panicking that I have a really terrible disease. Anyway back to the friend,she and I became really close but then I started seeing her true colors. At the time she was suicidal and very emotional and she used to drive me crazy. She would text me call me and I would spend hours everyday trying to console her on the phone. It was so exhausting and it really worsened my stress. After my first year of college we fought constantly and never talked since. Throughout college I was depressed and tired because I was lonely and stressed. These days my hypochondria is still really bad, and my depression has gotten worse. I'm lonely, I have great friends and great family, but I feel so lonely. I've never had a boyfriend/no first kiss, never done much because I live at home. I feel so pathetic.


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    Big meanie Boyfriend

    Posted by Sad & lonely at December 30, 2011
    Tags: 2011 December   Relationship

    Im 22 yrs of age & have been with my boyfriend for 4 yrs.
    I feel that, in this relationship iv'e put my whole heart & soul into him & nothing gets given back.. I know you shouldn't expect things back, but when you, cook, clean, practically do everything for him, he doesn't even have to move to get his dinner, it's ready with a drink & a knife & fork, every afternoon. I fold & wash his clothes. I clean the house 24/7 just to keep him happy.
    I've also changed so much as a person, for him. I was a little bit of a wild child back before we met. When we were first dating, he would tell me not to do this or that because the girls he knows wouldn't act like that. He makes me feel like he's ashamed of me.
    He's left me at pubs & clubs by myself when he's wanted to stay out with his mates, but before we leave he says, "I don't want to have a big night".
    I stay because I love him. But I'm starting to hurt way to much. I try & tell him how I feel but somehow it ends up me, being the one who gets in trouble.. I love this guy so much. All I'm asking for is affection. Shouldn't the affection just come, when your inlove with someone?
    People who think material things are the way of life, miss out on all the love & happiness.
    Someone please help. I'm sooooo stuck!!!!


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    Fake it til you make it.

    Posted by anonymous at December 30, 2011
    Tags: 2011 December   Philosophical

    My life 'sucks' just as much, but hey guys, the new year is coming. It'll be a better year, if you believe it will be. It's going to be a new beginning, or maybe, just a better state of living. Whatever attitude you start the year with, it might just continue on for the rest of the year. If you can't be happy, fake it till you make it. Even if whatever situation you're in makes you wanna die, keep living. You are your own material to something better. Do it for your kids, your loved ones, but most importantly, do it for yourself. Your life sucks, because you said it yourself. I'm sorry if this isn't helping, but please cheer up. There's so much light, beauty and mysteries in life that has yet to be seen.


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    Chronic Depression

    Posted by Mondo at December 30, 2011
    Tags: Childhood   2011 December

    "Love is a losing game." -Crackhead Amy Winehouse

    So in life you're supposed to learn new things that progress you as a person. If you werent raised right, you wouldnt know. I almost didnt. Im dealing with my childhood now, and for the rest of my life. I regret allowing my mother to raise me for now I have more problems than I can bare. I have a boyfriend and I dont know how much more of this "no love" feeling I can take. Im tired of picking petals and the love I thought was there is even hollower than I could imagine. At least that's what I think but I dont think he would even tell me to start if he ever stopped. He never tells me anything and I feel the space he leaves me to think is to desolate. I dont even know him anymore. They say, "if you love something, set it free." Im afraid I cant do that, there isnt much keeping me from suicide but hes the last thing I have so forgive me if Im holding on to a lie.

    I wish I knew if he loved me.

    I wish I had family and friends.

    All I have is him, and I wont want anything else when hes gone...


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    im stuck

    Posted by anonymous at December 30, 2011
    Tags: 2011 December   Job   Justice   Money

    so.. i got suspended from my work as a cashier after being short three times with a total of a thousand dollars. I can honestly tell to God that I really had no idea where that money went. A week later after I got suspended, police arrested me because the company I am working for filed a felony theft case against me. That is probably the worst nightmare in my life. Until now, I cant believe that I would go through that in my life. Now, I am unemployed. I feel so helpless because I cannot help out my family with our financial needs. This file charged against me and the arrested record will stay on my name until I prove to the court that I am innocent. I pity myself. Most importantly, I am supposed to be in the nursing program starting in 3 weeks and we have to submit and prove that we have a clean criminal background check. Ive been so worried that after all my hard work just to get in to the program, I will end up getting kick out because they will see my arrest record. Finishing nursing school is my very first priority in life and my family's dream. Now that I am not sure if I will be able to go to the nursing program, I feel like my life is just stuck. I dont know what Im supposed to do right now. Im so disappointed, mad, sad, and terrified what is the future waiting for me. What if they won't believe that I am innocent, what if I go in jail again? My dream will all fall apart. My family's hope will be crushed. You see I was supposed to be the first person in the family that will graduate in college. I got scholarships and government grants that pays for my tuition fees and school expenses. I work so hard but everything will go to nothing just because I was accused of something I DID NOT DO. I keep praying to GOD that I hope they'll find out the truth. I wish they will find where the money really went. But its been a month, and my court date is getting closer. They haven't drop the charge still. I don't know what to do. My life sucks.


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