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i feel very sad

Posted by Lucas at June 5, 2012
Tags: 2012 June  Loneliness

I am in my late 20s and for the past months have been very depressed and hopeless. I am tired of being alone. I feel that when I was younger girls were more into me, but now it's been failure after failure. I don't know what a relationship is, the only time I had a girlfriend was when I was 19 years old and it lasted 2 months. I am embarrassed to keep getting older and not having a girl by my side. I am not ugly, I dont know what is wrong with me. I am new to the city where I live right now so most of my friends and family are far away. I am grateful to have a job, but I am starting to hate it.
I miss my mom. She killed herself two years ago. I miss 10 years ago. I dont know how to come out of the hole that i am in. i started drinking and doing drugs and then i really got worried, so i stopped. i am not drinking or doing any drugs right now, but i dont feel ANY better. I just feel so much more in touch with my pain and my loneliness.
I put on such a good front. Nobody suspect the way I feel. I dont want them to feel pitty for me, that is why i am writing this post here under an anonymous name. this is how i really feel.


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By Aniruddh at 10,Jun,12 13:02

My friend girlfriend is not everything in life. There are other important things too. Like progressing in life.
Always remember my words

"Never chase for success but for excellence...success will come automatically."

Also please come out of drugs and alcohol.
By Lucas at 14,Jun,12 21:39

Thanks for your comment. I actually feel better. I still have not taken any drugs or alcohol and I have become more active and started doing sports (biking, surfing). I think that if I just stop worrying about not having a girl by my side and start trying to be happy with who I am, then eventually I will find that girl (or she will find me).


By anonymous at 10,Jun,12 16:00

Go to a gay bar.
By anonymous at 11,Jun,12 04:16

Dude I don't think he's gay.
By Lucas at 14,Jun,12 21:40

I am not gay. Thanks


By anonymous at 12,Jun,12 19:03

Did you go see a professional? They could prescribe you something to get by until you start feeling better
By Lucas at 14,Jun,12 21:40

Thanks for your comment. I actually feel better. I still have not taken any drugs or alcohol and I have become more active and started doing sports (biking, surfing). I think that if I just stop worrying about not having a girl by my side and start trying to be happy with who I am, then eventually I will find that girl (or she will find me).


By anonymous at 12,Jun,12 23:56

I agree with Aniruddh. What's up with everyone being reliant on having a boyfriend/girlfriend to make their lives better? Whatever improvements that happen in one's life are due to the choices they make and forming new friendships and talking it out with others. Do you have any friends? Try and make some gradually, maybe at the workplace, school, or a community social group.

Extended family? Try and contact them - you have more in common with them than you may think. Just reach out to people, anyone, and share your feelings with them. Try calling a help line if need be. It will make you feel much better, trust me. It is natural for human beings to feel alone - we all feel alone and lonely at times, it's normal. By reaching out and sharing with others, we eleviate this problem to a level where we can at least cope better with it.
By Lucas at 14,Jun,12 21:39

Thanks for your comment. I actually feel better. I still have not taken any drugs or alcohol and I have become more active and started doing sports (biking, surfing). I think that if I just stop worrying about not having a girl by my side and start trying to be happy with who I am, then eventually I will find that girl (or she will find me).


By anonymous at 13,Jun,12 10:40

You feel very sad because you're a sad pathetic idiot.
By Lucas at 14,Jun,12 21:44

I feel sad for people like you. By your comment I think you must be a kid. I hope you grow up to be a nice person!


By anonymous at 21,Aug,12 20:27

Girls and women are evil scum gemerally speaking. I hate them. I dont have a girlfriend and I dont care. God forgot to give them a heart. Girls and women are from the Devil. I hate all of you sluts.


By anonymous at 30,Aug,12 18:32

i feel exactly like you spent my whole fucking life begging at the golden vag! im 30 years old i can honestly tell you a couple truths. 1)98% are such whores and the others act so totally "mindfucked" from past relationships that it is better to not even get involved with them 2) women want assholes,so give them what they want!!!!! 3)do your best to not even go after them. Stop sucking the worlds dick for a job, for women, for everything. Do what YOU AS A FUCKING MAN WANT TO DO AND NOTHING ELSE!!! do you hear me son wake up and stop letting the world fuck with you.Start fucking with the world. This has been daily words of wisdom by your friend johnny g!!


By anonymous at 05,Oct,12 07:30

okay u sound like the perfect guy to me so i doubt u will have ANY trouble finding mrs.right :)) and dont be so desperate to have a girlfriend, if u are (and this coming from a girl) it might rub off on them that they are all u have and they might take advantage of u and u wouldnt want that would u..? PLUSSSSS YOURE ONLY 20!! U ARE SO YOUNGGG U HAVE THE REST OF UR LIFE TO LOOK FORWARD TO!! good luck Lucas XD but dont take my advice coz im not really that experienced myself im only 15 :OOO


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By anonymous at 08,Mar,14 12:40

Pray to jesus for purpose / money/ women will not help you Jesus will helps other and your life will come togther/ i promise/ I am man of God and your friend


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