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Being a woman, I can say that there is some self-destructive mechanism that is ingrained in us to always fall for the "bad-guy". It totally sucks, but don't worry- we eventually/hopefully out grow it... It probably stems back to our evolution- wanting to mate with the complete asshole caveman that treats us like dirt but is the "alpha" male, and so we gravitate towards that- survival of the fittest. In anycase, please don't loose hope. I'd like to say that as we age (women) that is, we realize that we should have married/dated the "nice-guy" and then that nice guy is taken. So don't fret, you will find a gal that has her head screwed on straight- and she will fall for you. A bit of advice- if you don't mind dating an older woman, they tend to be more mature and definitely more grateful. I was there once- young, beautiful, and completely clueless. And yes, many a nice guy was overlooked for that "asshole" that I thought was cool. Don't worry- like a fine wine, we become better with age...
Cursed
@cursed: Dont give me the "they tend to be more mature and definately more grateful" line ... its only because they do not have any "vertical" power to move up the chain of useless men that are just perceptions of what they think is cool. They're tired.
Original poster ... do yourself a favor. Grow some balls and go get you some from these females and don't settle for someone that has gave it up so loosely to others but wants to make you work for it ...
I can help though. What you need to do is drink a lot of booze everyday. That's just for starters. It'll make your insufferable shitbird personality into something different, and different is good. Also, you need to get away from the friendship thing and start right away licking the hatchet wound. You need to slurp that thing like a like a feral dog on a hambone. I mean, make her cry and piss in your face uncontrollably and then go back for more. That way, she won't care when you put in your angry inch and blow man chowder in 18 seconds.
I mean really, figure it out...you're over 6 feet tall...they call you "shorty" for another reason.
You're welcome shorty. I hate you!
Being nice is attractive, but it shouldn't be all there is to your personality. You need to have some interests and passions about life as well. If all you did was focus on the girl, she must have gotten bored because there wasn't anything for her to share or learn from you. The girlfriend should not be all you focus on. It's okay to pursue your own hobbies and interests outside of a relationship.
Decide what you want in life and take it. You don't have to be an asshole to do that.
Nice people are boring. Stop caring about other people and start caring about yourself. Then find a companion you care about. But you have to care about yourself first.
Most females tend to go through this phase up until their late twenties (some times longer), where they are confused about what they want when it comes to men. For whatever reason, they say they want a good guy, but their behavior reflects the opposite.
With us men it's very simple when it comes to what we want, if a girl is physically attractive to you, if she seems interested in you and you get a long with her, there you go, thats basically all that matters when it comes to chosing a mate for us.
With women its a complicated cluster fuck, she has to be more emotionally attracted to the guy, and women's emotions & feelings change constantly. Bad guys are more unpredictable, and that sort of vibe is more attractive to women, even though bad guys are prone to cheating and inflicting abuse.
Most women make illogical and down right stupid choices (that are void of common sense) when it comes to relationships, until they are in their late twenties, but by that time, the woman usually is fat by then and used up the majority of her prime wasted on idiots, losers and ass holes. If you are a nice guy you usually get what's left over, after she grows up.
may you find peace
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