I'm 29yo, and unemployed I had to move back in with my dad after I came home from Iraq because my wife moved another guy in the house and had a kid. I have a girlfriend but we don't get along at all she gets pissed off over nothing all the time starts screaming at me and then turns everything around like I'm the one being so mean and she is just the poor victim. My ex-wife blocked my phone number because when my children came to visit I didnt have my 8yo daughter in a car seat so Im an asshole as a result I haven't talked to my children in over a year. I have alot of debt and no money to pay it. I'm so depressed I hardly leave the house, and I don't talk to any of my friends anymore. I just don't know how long I can do it anymore I try and try but somehow I always seem to srew everything up. | |
But just hang in their and trust what you do. Start by getting you a job. Then your own place and transportation.
Find your self a hobby.....or get yourself a motorcycle.
Stay away from cig's, beer, drugs,.....and you will be all right. Trust me. Your only friend is a Dog.
and thinks the world owes them something. Get rid of her and don't get in a hurry to find another one because if you plan to have any money........they don't work both together.
don't let this beat you. you survived iraq. you can survive this. best of luck.
Judgmental prick.
I hate you.
As an outsider looking in, this what i see -- you've lost confidence in you. I am imagining how much courage it took to enlist in the military, right? not everyone can do it. you did.
The only way you can change your life is to change you. That starts with your brain. You've been given an opportunity to start fresh with your life. You are 29 years old. It's better you found about your ex-wife now then later when you're too old.
If you haven't seen your kids, that is okay. they will always be your kids. you will always love them. but right now, you need to focus on yourself. so what do to do?
go to the veterans office. go back to school. you should be eligible for the GI bill. As a vet, you could always get no down payment loan to buy house. wait on that.
you were trained in certain skills in the military. find out what you can do for it. take whatever job you can, part time. why? so you get out of the house. work on yourself. work on your career. work on your body.
the one thing you should do is dump your girlfriend. i am sorry. there are 9 billion people on this planet, you will find someone who treats you with respect. i am sorry to say it. good luck !
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