It's weird how reading about other people's misery makes me feel better, but it does and I hope this helps some of you. I'm 27, and I haven't had a girlfriend in about 5 years. I'm not bad looking and I'm not socially awkward but I've only had one girlfriend in my life. I've had random hook ups and rejections left and right with many months in between, but I don't seem to get anywhere. I doubt my ability to even have good sex anymore. I think it all had to do with me living in social isolation for many years. I kept changing. I changed careers and interests and locations and I've gotten older, but I've gotten nowhere. I'm still where I was five years ago only now I've just lost all my confidence, and I feel suicidal often. I hate age. Time ruins everything. Slowly but surely. | |
i am sry, but that isn't so bad if your biggest problem is lack of a romantic relationship. you are healthy and employed. it should not be impossible for you to find a girlfriend. do you have high standards?
there are just as many lonely girls feeling the same way as you do. you need to go out and try to find a girlfriend. most women want relationships so it should not be too difficult. go on a dating website. go to singles events. go to speeding date events. go to church if you're religious. rejections hurt, sure. but you need to thicken your skin and handle rejections well because the more rejections means the more you are trying. and the more you are trying, the more chances that you will be successful. it's all a numbers game. good luck.
We all know and understand how you feel. I have personally tried online dating and it isn't that bad. You have to be selective, as there are a lot of people you wouldn't want to be involved with- trolling the web, but it's better than the bar?! You're not that old! Holy Moly, if I could be 27 again! I'm sure you're perfectly capable of having sex. And if you have a problem with getting a hard-on, personally, I have had boyfriends use viagra and cialis, and boy- it's amazing! It's perfectly normal.
So, go out there, get off the "pity-party" bus, and do something!
You can make it happen-
be strong-
Cursed
You walk up to a hot chick and then she's kinda grinning like you do when you know you're going to barf but just not quite when, like a kind of fish lip half smile, and she's screaming inside her head , " AWWW GOD NO NOT THE TROLL FROM THE CORNER TABLE WHERE PEOPLE PASS OUT!!! IF I LOOK AT HIM FOR ONE MORE SECOND I'LL TURN TO STONE!!!!". And then you mistake the barfsmirk as an invitation to attempt a pickup. So you're like, " Hey bab..BRRAAAAPP...y, do you have ....BRRRAAPP BRRRAAPP SQUIRT...any swedish in...BRRRAAAAAAP BRRp...you? , and she's like "Um no, ugly troll thing, and then you're like "BRRRAAAP SQUISH EEEERRRKK BRAP...want some?"
....so, I don't think that's very productive. I suspect you'd have better luck, marginally, with your steady girlfriend Handrea.
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