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Losing everything

Posted by tim at May 28, 2012
Tags: Loneliness  2012 May

Im an older guy, late 20's and as i sit here, im just filled with so much sadness, I cant explain the feeling but its like im all alone. I am all alone. I dont have alot of friends, no one calls me or txt me. I come home from work and i just sleep all day, get up the next day and repeat the cycle. At work i have to really fight not to break down. I just feel like iv lost so much. I guess it just comes from not feeling like im important to anyone. People that told me that they loved me and would be there for me left me. My best friend who i never thought would hurt me did. My family..there so far away i cant see them so i have no support. Its just me here. I had a thought the other day that maybe i really am going to die alone and it sucks to say that because i really am a great person. Im not bad looking at all, i treat everyone with respect, im a lovable guy. If the people i socialize with at work really knew how i felt theyd be shocked, because i put on a perfect front. Im just scared because i feel myself slipping into destructive behavior such as alcohol and drugs which ive started. I dont know where to find happiness. I pray to god but no one answers.


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By anonymous at 28,May,12 10:48

Obviously elicit drugs won't get you out of this mess. Go to a doctor and get anti-depressants and more importantly seek a psychotherapist to bounce your ideas off of.

And be blessed that you have a job. Just imagine how difficult it would be if you were jobless.

By anonymous at 28,May,12 13:32

I'm sorry, but I laughed when you say you're an older guy in your late 20's. That is YOUNG!!! Cliche or not, you have your whole life ahead of you. Why are you wasting it? Stop the drugs and alcohol right now. Go to rehab if it's gotten that bad or at the least go to AA or get counseling. If you believe in God then start going to church. God helps those who help themselves. How can you get happy hiding in your house at night drinking alone? Good luck and God bless.

By anonymous at 28,May,12 14:34

So you're a drunk huh...

By anonymous at 28,May,12 19:57

lets chat over internet , , , : )

By anonymous at 28,May,12 22:21

Sorry ass bitch.... Just fucking pathetic
By anonymous at 03,Jun,12 22:46

If you can't be helpful don't comment. People like you are the reason others are so alone in world.

By anonymous at 29,May,12 04:38

We can wait for happiness, and while patience is a good thing, expecting life to hand out what we deserve, doesn't really work.

The best thing is to look at yourself and see if there is one or two things that interest you, aside from getting a happy fix.

Begin to get involved , when you have time, in something that interest you and see where it leads. For me I found that putting together Gaming Computers interested me, I dont earn a living from it, but Ive built a few for folks, and have become involved in various forums, that deal with my interest.

For you it may besomething totally different, photogrphy, poetry, etc etc.

It's not out of the question that people you have contact with, who have similar interests, might have more in common with you. perhaps not, but the main thing is, its yours, the interst/hobby.
By at 29,May,12 23:01

I'm exactly like you man,I have very few friends and no txt's me either. All the gf's I have all end up cheating me for some reason even though I treat them really well. I have starting hitting the bottle myself. Trust me it does it help to much.
By anonymous at 05,Oct,12 07:49

sorry to hear that but to tell u the truth, most women dont like the guys who are good to them, as u already know, unfortunately... nice guys finish last... most women see "nice guys" as nothing more than friends.

By anonymous at 30,May,12 23:42

i have a wife and 3 kids 2 of them arnt mine and i have to work alot i only stay with the wife because she said she would take my child far away and wouldnt be able to see her i come home from work and not alowed to go anywhere or do anything when im of work im bassically a daycare for her i make all the money and i dont get to spend any of it on my self besides gas to go back and forth to work she drinks and i do to i know thats alot of my problem . so the point of this is if you find someone make sure shes the right one and keep your head up you'll do good i use to think alot like u about being alone and i found the wrong one and shes got me between a rock and a hard place so choose wisely dont go looking in the bars go to church or the grocrey store sorry i can't spell worth a shit

By anonymous at 03,Jun,12 22:44

Drinks and drugs only make things worse. Reading is what helped me get through the hard times. I would just get lost in the story, go to another time and place. Finding a hobby is a start. No direction but up from where you are sitting anf you will get where you are going.

By at 09,Jun,12 05:52

I know exactly how you feel. Reading you're story made me feel like I was reading my own. I'm a female in my early 20's my best friends ruined my life I have one friend & sometimes i dont even know if shes a true friend and the rest are fake just taking up empty space around me. I'm sad all the time I can't even remember the last time I went a day without crying and wishing everything was over & just be able to start over! I've been alone basically my whole life I live with my family and I still feel alone because no one cares about anyone but themselves. I know for a fact that I'll always be alone and die alone I've never gotten anything besides rejection in my life family, friends, dating but I'm not going to give up and you shouldnt give up either life may be rough and lonley sometimes but everyone was put on this earth for whatever reason everyone has someone that loves, cares, and wants to be around its just sometimes as humans were blind by things like that because dissapointment and rejection is instilled in us from day one. I hope things get better for you everyday is a fight but it must be fought in order to make it through.

By anonymous at 15,Jun,12 19:12

Wow you sound almost like me but I am 57 and I really have no one. My wife left me for another women after 34 years and I only see my daughter and grand kids once a week for about 3 hrs. I don't really have any friends and I sit sometimes and want to end it all but that would not be fair to my daughter and grand kids. I had a real good friend that I helped out many many times. When she lost her job and didn't have money for food for her and her kids I went out and bought them groceries and never asked her to pay me back. She needed money for bills and she said she would pay me back when she could and i told her that was fine. About 9 months later I text her and said don't worry about paying that money back and 2 weeks later she text me and said I was an asshole and to never text her again. So you see I try to be nice to people and they just shit on me. I know how you feel about being alone. I go tru it everyday.

By anonymous at 08,Jul,12 08:41

I know exactly how you feel, sometimes i feel that too. I am 36 yrs old a mother of 3 and my partner is 61 years old now. He is absolutely self centered man. He work and save his money on his own. then he will go out with friends to enjoy his life and spend his money with them. He not paying house rent, power bill and food (groceries) Whatever money he make he just keep it himself. And I? I am working mom, after work i need to clean, wash, cook and so on inside the house. I am working nighshift and cook, clean the house during the day. taking kids to school and pick them up after. My life is really sucks! i am feeling lonely most of the time. My partner is always with his best friends if he is free. I wanted to leave. and take the kids with me but at the moment i can not afford yet because all my salary goes to my kids needs and food. If ever I decide to break up with him i also need to have money to pay the house in advance and needed to buy washing machine, bed, kitchen wares etc... I really need help too. i have no trusted friend at all. Im just hoping that GOD will help me for everything.

By anonymous at 01,Sep,12 17:33

And my final comment to all of you degenerates who have harassed me is FUCK YOU ASSHOLES.

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By anonymous at 19,May,14 08:21

I am alone.i have 9 sisters 2 parents. I dnt no why nobody love me all think that I am loser and I am characterless girl.i love all of them but they not love me they just want to put orders on me.any one of my sister not love me not listen me.i love some one his name junaid.but he also irritate with me because of my family he also doing fight with me.i love him a lot but he just fight with me because of my family didn't like junaid.i dnt no why.please ALLAH I want to die pleaseee.I LOVE U JUNAID. ;-(

By anonymous at 07,Mar,15 04:44

hi Tim

ppl go through loneliness weather what shape n sizes, it just suck i m a girl alot men chases me, but then i m alone in my room doing daily routine, work, like dint know life b that harsh and lonely, it sucks

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