Ok someone told me that not everyone cheats on eachother. I never said that. I said that people have the urges to cheat. There is a difference, some people have restraint. But I think that supports my theory on how love, relations, or intimacy is meaningless. Knowing that both people in a relationship have the temptation to cheat, it shows lack of companionship. What's funny is that it's getting worse every year. Thanks to the current role models... but let me explain how the love process REALLY works.
It's all traced back many years ago when hunting and gathering were the only jobs available (that's more than today har har har). Well there is always the alpha male, the one who was the best hunter. This male got first pick on the women (plural because he had many), the reason for this is because women search for security. Yup that's it, security. A male who was good at hunting would be better at protecting and supporting the family and producing stronger offspring. (Sounds like natural selection to me). The less valuable hunters were not as successful.
Lets convert this idea to todays standards. What do women want? Confidence. Confidence is important for social interaction. If a woman was with a confident male she would feel better supported socially.
This focus's on the female really. As for the male, the more social he is the more women he expects to get. He is the alpha male you know... The alpha male would usually go for alpha females. Unfortunately these two never work out. Both desire control and power but throught the whole relationship there is a struggle. That's where divorce comes into play. But an aplha male with an inferior female would not be satisfied, so he would more likely to cheat. On the flip side the alpha female would find a male and would do the following: Play a sick guessing game, go out with him and use him, or this was another alpha male and you repeat what i just said a few sentences ago.
There is more.
The whole idea of a relationship is a struggle for power. When the checks and balances fail (in both sense, government ideal and banking ideal), so does the relationship.
It's funny how people say love is a mysterious thing, yet I'm pretty much on the dot...from mysterious to meaningless...
If you have any more questions please comment. If you disagree explain why and I will argue with you in my next post. | |
Though, there are some people that would fight this "urge to cheat", to preserve their relationship with a partner.
Just find someone for yourself that would prefer a good relationship over an "alpha male/female"
Power imbalances will certainly lead to messed up relationships. Isn't the solution to date your equals?
What makes no sense to me is child attachment. The issue with my idea is that women would be against it because it's their nature to become attached. They are too emotionally weak to follow this logical lifestyle.
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