I am 21 yrs old. my whole life has been a complete waste. i don't know why my life sucks but it does.i m an introvert so i don't have many friends and those people who are my friends are just friends of name.what should i do?. it seems life has no meaning now. i feel lonely, i feel empty , i feel dead inside. | |
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I think you are at the age where you haven't found your niche yet, and the people who are most like you haven't really come out of the woodwork yet. They are at home, online like you, thinking bad things about themselves. Sometimes they feel alright about themselves, but then a depressed mood will come over them after a bad comment or a lonely day, and they will feel the feelings you posted in your post.
But they will come into their own soon, and you will meet them. Make this rule for yourself: Whenever someone invites you to ANYTHING, no matter who it is or where it is, you have to go. Even if you would have more fun at home, reading or something, you have to go. Because, whether it's a good one or a bad one, you can't make up for a lost memory. Fill it up with events and interactions and the days won’t seem like they have just rushed by. Start doing activities, joining clubs, writing, or creating. Have something to show for the day, whether it be a memory you won’t soon forget or something you have produced or helped with.
Also, you have to absolutely and completely turn off your negative thinking and talking about yourself. You don't know what you've done or said in your life or how it has affected others. Who are you to say that your life has been a waste?
Also, if you can stand to hear a Christian pastor talk, these two sermons totally changed my life/outlook in this area. I’ve given this to my atheist friends not to convert them, but to get a good discussion going about life in general. This guy is a genius, reads a lot, and draws on a lot of philosophy and literature. Even if you are not spiritual at all, you can still get something out of listening to these, because it will help you think about your motives, what you think about yourself, what you value in life, why you do things, why you want friends, what you want from other people, and why you are having desires that can't be fulfilled.
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