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12 reasons why you hate your life

Posted by anonymous at November 16, 2009
Tags: November 2009  Philosophical

Thereís really no reason you should hate your life. Many people give excuses as to why they do. Here are 12 common reasons. If you given these excuses then you need to quickly readjust your thinking. When you do, youíll quickly come to enjoy your life.

1. Your parents ruined your life

Many people complain that their parents raised them wrong, set them up for failure, or didnít start a college fund for them. If you can recognize these shortcomings, the you can change the future.

2. You have no money

This is probably the worst excuse. If money is the main reason for your happiness then you will never be happy. Money should not make you enjoy your life or hate it.

3. Your job sucks

If it sucks so much then quit and move on. A bad job should give you motivation to chase your dreams and strive for something better.

4. You have no time

If you have no time to do what you want then you must be letting unimportant tasks get the best of you. Thereís many times when we think something is important or urgent, but in reality it isnít. Recognize when you do this and change your focus to what you desire. Eliminate the unnecessary things that we all have and instantly youíll have more time.

5. You have no one

Many times peopleís depression and reason for hating life is because they feel alone. Itís one of Maslowís Hierarchy of Needs. Everyone must feel that they are wanted and have friends. When you donít feel like you have anyone, you become depressed. But being depressed isnít going to do any better, itís going to chase people further away.

6. Youíre a failure

People say theyíre failures when they donít accomplish something. But they always forget to recall or recognize the successes theyíve had in the past. You will never be a failure as long as you continue. And you never fail to learn from failure. Failure is great.

7. Youíve done nothing with your life

If youíve done nothing productive with your life then get going! Start now or start tomorrow. Itís never too late or too early.

8. Youíre bored

If youíre bored with your job and life, then you arenít challenging yourself enough. Youíve settled with mediocrity. Start dreaming. Write down your dreams and goals, and how you can achieve them. Your life will become exciting in no time.

9. Youíre stuck

Many people hate their lives because they feel like theyíre getting no where fast. Whether it be debt and bills or a bad job, you can begin to plan your escape right now. Create a plan with hundreds of little steps and take at least one step everyday. Once you do so youíre becoming unstuck and before you know it youíve escaped.

10. You let others get to you

You may hate your life because you listen too much to others. Donít listen to naysayers and negative opinions. Donít let others make you hate your life. Most of the time those who make you feel that way, hate their own lives.

11. Youíve stopped yourself

Many of those who hate their lives, do so because they didnít follow through with their dreams. YOU are the most important factor to YOUR joy and happiness.

12. Youíre too negative

If you hate your life then youíre too negative. Change your attitude and youíll enjoy your life.


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By anonymous at 26,Mar,11 03:07

LIFE DOES SUCK!!! A LOT!! I'M A 24 YEAR OLD GUY, I'M GAY MALE, NOT THE PUSSY KIND OF GAY, BUT MORE LIKE THE MASCULINE TYPE, WELL HERE'S THE STORY... TWO YEARS AGO BEING A COLLEGE STUDENT EVERYTHING IN MY LIFE WAS GOING ON PERFECT BUT THEN .... I FOUND A GUY LOOKING AT ME AT COLLEGE AND HE WAS A NICE MUSCULAR GAY, JUST LIKE THE ONES I LIKE AND HE WAS REALLY LIKE TRYING TO HOOK ME UP, AND THEN SHIT FALLS FROM NOWHERE, ...I FOUND I HAD A STD FROM A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP IN THE PAST UNPROTECTED, AND MY LIFE SUDDENLY WAS DEVASTATED BY THAT, I HAD TO DO AN ALMOST ONE YEAR TREATMENT, MY COCK WAS BURNED TOO BAD, I HAD A TERRIBLE DEPRESSION, AND THE GUY WHO WAS "THE GUY OF MY LIFE" I COULDN'T KEEP LOOKING AT HIM, OR JUST ACCEPT A RELATIONSHIP, I HAD A FUCKING """"STD"""" FROM A FUCKING CRAPPY STINKY DIABETIC GUY I MET AT THE SAUNA!!! I TOUGH LIFE WAS PLAYING ME A JOKE, BUT IT WAS NOT THE CASE, I HAD TO LET GO, PROBABLY THE ONE WHO WAS GOING TO BE THE MEN OF MY LIFE, I DID WANT THAT RELATIONSHIP TOO BAD, AND I HAD TO GIVE IT UP, CAUSE I WASN'T READY NOT PHISICALLY NOR MENTALLY, TO GET TO HIM AND EXPLAIN HIM MY PROBLEM, I THOUGH HE WOULD JUST REJECT ME CAUSE OF MY STD, AND WELL NOW TWO YEARS AND FOUR MONSTH LATER, I'M CURED I HAVE DEFEATED THE SHIT, BUT I'M ALONE, AND THE WORST PART, I FAILED AT SCHOOL I LOST THAT ACADEMIC YEAR, IT WAS A MESS!!!! AND I HAD TO GIVE UP ON THAT CARREER AND START A NEW ONE, IN OTHER UNIVERSITY, AND I LOOK BACK I IT HURTS, I JUST DON'T WANNA LOOK BACK ANYMORE, NOW I'M IN MY FIFTH SEMESTER OF ECONOMICS BACHERLOR DEGREE, AND I LIKE IT A LOT, BUT I MISS THE COLLEGE I MISS MY FIRENDS THERE, AND I MISS THAT PERSON I WISH HE COULD STILL THINK ABOUT ME, AND I KNOW WHRE HE IS, AND I DID FOUND HIM AT FACEBOOK, BUT I DON'T KNOW SOMETHING TELLS ME THAT THAT RELATIONSHIP WAS NOTMENT TO BE, AT LEAST INTHAT PARTICULAR MOMENT... I HATE LIFE, IT TOOK EVERYTHING AWAY FROM ME IN MATTER OF A YEAR, IT DISSAPEARED, ALL I HAD IS GONE!!! SAD... BUT TRUE.
By at 23,Apr,11 00:00

What a pitty your life is sooo bad:( But you make it bad. Do you ever try hard enough and put yourself out there or advitise your good well being. NO you dont. So that is your problem.
By anonymous at 07,Jul,11 13:02 Fold Up

that's really sad. maybe you should try to meet a new guy
By anonymous at 09,Aug,11 14:04 Fold Up

hahaha shut up fagget its ur own fault for fucking some old dude.
By anonymous at 04,Jan,12 15:09

Life sucks, mostly because most people in the world in the world are stupid assholes like this one.

And that is a FACT.
By anonymous at 04,Jan,12 15:10

....aand I can't even fucking write while this heavily under medication to make life "not suck"... but ta-fucking-dah, it STILL sucks ass.
By anonymous at 02,Apr,12 03:14 Fold Up

Stop been mean!!! People can hate there life... Cause they get bullied..!!! And the only thing they feel like doing is suicide... I'm sorry your life feels bad... Mine is horrible as well. :(
By anonymous at 17,Dec,12 17:07 Fold Up

Life always sucks its just we made it if we change ourselves we can change our life I don't know but that's how you can accomplish tasks
By anonymous at 17,Aug,11 00:48 Fold Up

Dude are you kidding me!? ya all that sucks but man, you're fucking cured, loving your course and you found the guy on facebook. your life doesn't suck at all. message him or call him or something and tell him how you feel, what you went through and why you couldn't be with him. if he's the one, he'll be with you. if not then move on and find someone else. you're young and you seem smart, you'll be okay and life will work out for you. that one year of your life sucked, yes, but now everything is going great for you. good luck
By anonymous at 19,Nov,11 04:56 Fold Up

There's a such thing as masculine gay?
By anonymous at 08,Dec,11 15:58 Fold Up

You should die Faggot.
By anonymous at 29,Dec,11 12:54 Fold Up

IM DRUNK HAHAHAH FAFAFAFAMOOOMOOOO
By anonymous at 15,Feb,12 05:52 Fold Up

Did you ever consider that you might be gay? I'm just thinking that if you weren't a fucking nut-case and loved pussy like every other human with a cock, you might not have such a difficult time. Good luck... I hope I helped:)
By anonymous at 23,Feb,12 13:20 Fold Up

nangnang zang pong ling fafafa hooodat livin on bit lil wayne my name aind dip but i kip that flame
By anonymous at 26,Feb,12 15:35 Fold Up

IM SOOO PROUD OF U .u kept going and u ra fighter nothing stop u from that job.U ROCK U FIGHTER
By anonymous at 11,Apr,12 14:19 Fold Up

so get the fuck up and quit listening to what people say. quit feel bad for yourself bro.
By anonymous at 24,Nov,12 15:23 Fold Up

Turn off caps you fag.


By anonymous at 07,Apr,11 23:54

Life is pure fucking darwinism. Fuck all that godly pretentious bullshit. Do or die...
By at 22,Apr,11 23:49

Offeneded i am. You ought to be ashamed of yourself. You may as well be the only satan lover on this world, but it gives me no right to judge what you do. Just like if i was the only god lover on this world it gives you no right to judge me. Remember what you do comes right back at you.!!
By anonymous at 04,Oct,11 19:22

who the heck do u think u r to be all happy and perfect i nobody nothing and worse happeness life sucks live in the reality!!!
By anonymous at 08,Dec,11 17:12 Fold Up

Fuck you asshole
By anonymous at 12,Feb,12 00:11

NO! FUCK YOU FAGGOT
By anonymous at 31,Jul,11 22:07 Fold Up

i will be praying for you stranger :) and all the people who hate there life... God loved the world soo much he gave to us his only son and who ever believes in him will have eturnal life :) god bless you all and help you threw all your problems.. Amen :)
By anonymous at 04,Jan,12 15:20 Fold Up

ok, I'll just go die then. Not a problem in the slightest.

I mean, I hardly ever stumble onto intelligent humanbeings who actually think life's great.

Why?

Anyone with even HALF a brain knows this world's full of assholes out to ruin anyone elses life.

I mean the people with good intentions and intellect get stomped down by the fucking retards from day one in school, by bullying and pure fucking idiotism.

And what do smart people get? Depressed.

And what do the fucking IDIOTS get? Absolutely everything. Not hard for them to get popular and get friends and go to work because everyone else is just as fucking stupid and just as big of an asshole as they are.

I'll GLADLY leave this fucked up asshole filled world with a smile on my face. Have your pretentious, shallow bullshit, dancing around just the way your bullshit enslaving society wants you to.

Darwinism... I'd say life is nothing but IDIOTISM - dumbing down of the humanrace.

All you assholes do is sit on your ass, buy more soda from the store and trust your electricity, heat, foodsupply and cold hard cash.. no natural predators to look out for, no threats, NOTHING to actually WORK for. Lazy stupid cookiedoughboys who have never seen a day of survival, don't care about nature, lift themselves above all else and sit in front of your fucking TV's.

Life has no challenge... and that's why you assholes have to attack everyone else in the world, just to get what your human nature needs... aggression, defending your territory and fighting, that was SUPPOSED to be used to catch your fucking food.. but nope, the 7/11 is fine and back to play videogames and being an asshole to people "for lulz"


Life sucks because the humanrace has been fucked in the ass royally for quite some time now... you either decide shit for others and bathe in cash or follow every single bullshit rule to get your safety and everything handed to you....

I'd rather live in the fucking medieval times, at least then I'd get to thrust my fucking sword inside anyone being an asshole and life would still have some fucking BALLS.
By anonymous at 23,Jan,12 07:59

well said mate, well said
By at 19,Feb,12 03:38 Fold Up

Hahhahaa my hero!!! ;)
By anonymous at 23,Feb,12 13:12 Fold Up

cheechanchong you dickbrain
By anonymous at 12,Mar,12 02:12 Fold Up

SO SO SO SO TRUE........
By anonymous at 13,Jul,12 12:52 Fold Up

so. freaking true.
By anonymous at 17,Jan,12 20:20 Fold Up

That is true. But I think the sooner everyone realizes it, and puts away the childish god shit, we can strive to make our lives better.
By anonymous at 29,Jan,12 16:07

you wanna shut up there nigga??
By anonymous at 23,Feb,12 13:30

zattters main man sam
By anonymous at 23,Feb,12 13:23 Fold Up

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By anonymous at 23,Feb,12 13:29

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By at 10,Feb,12 18:53

Im 11 years old. My life changes on how much I love it. I think I got Multi Personality Disorder :P

At school, Im normally made fun of and shit :P

But later Im happy and random and childish again :P

After that Im depressed :P
By anonymous at 26,Feb,12 13:12

MADAFADA MAIN MAN BILL HERE TO HELP!
By anonymous at 10,Apr,12 12:39 Fold Up

your young live your life and love it , it will get better i know how you feel i got over it and now my life is better and yours will do to dont worry about anything be your self and what ever is wrong let it go over your head and do what you do be childish;):p
By anonymous at 06,Apr,13 20:49

no ur wrong.. thats what everybody used to tel me when i was a child and now im 26yo and my life still the same..hateit
By anonymous at 24,Nov,12 15:26 Fold Up

You are just a kid who spends too much time self-diagnosing. Jesus Christ, 11 years old and you are on this site already? I bet you love the attention you get though.


By anonymous at 05,Jun,12 19:55

I hate my life. When I was six, my parents got divorced. My dad NEVER paid my mom which made her have to work 3 jobs to support us and I never saw her. When I was 12, I went into depression from too much homework. Then my grandmother died and I went into a worse depression and my teachers didn't care and gave me more work. My mom went to my grandfathers house everyday leaving my to take care of the house and my brother leaving me less time to do my homework making me extremely stressed trying to cram it in. I am still 12. My teachers give 5 hours of homework a night. That is crazy! We have essays, projects, assignments. I was out for a week so now I have to make up 2 tests, 4 projects and a weeks worth of homework in 1 night. My teachers hate me for no reason. MY LIFE SUCKS!
By anonymous at 12,May,13 18:11

You are stupid. Homework is homework they will not change it to your own personal settings. Some people never even have both parents when they are born. And you were 12 and you're calling it depression. Depression and being sad are two different things. And everyone's family members die. Shut up your story isn't something to hate life over it's something as natural as birth.


By anonymous at 07,Jun,12 15:00

I am a 22 male. I did think I hated my life. I was in a great deal of depression. My fiance broke up with me a year ago by just leaving me a note on my bed, and that was it. I got two DUIs in the following four months. I got lucky and a family friend got me a good job at an oil company. But being trapped in four walls just made me more depressed and more sad. BUT After having read all of ya'lls crap it just makes me think, "Well shit, I can be happy". So fuck ya'll ill be happy. I am too fucking young to be sad, so what if I have no friends except my dog, family, and my love for golf. Life gets hard as hell sometimes and you might not be proud about everything you've done, but you gotta keep fighting till the day you die.
Peace


By anonymous at 15,Jun,12 03:41

Ok, I'm sorry but this whole thing seems kinda ridiculous I mean I believe to some extent that God did this a nd God did that , but seriously people, god did not fucking make earth, listen to scieence, evolution. And the grumpy old maybe not old dude, really? People should be allowed to believe in whatever they believe in without being called a fag or and asshole, everyone can be an asshole, but that doesn't mean we have to.
~Sarah


By anonymous at 15,Jun,12 03:43

Oh, and your lives can get better, but it depends on what carma throws at you, so honestly just try to be cool, don't let all the assholes get to you and push through life, cuz it may suck now, but it might not later.
~Sarah


By anonymous at 24,Jun,12 23:44

Its unfortunate to have people come to a blog like this and use hate speech to put somebody further down then they already. I dont know why they would do it and im not going to waste my time trying to figre it out. Here is a fact for everyone. Being sad, hateful, unappreciative, abd melencholyus much much easier than being happy. My advice. Meditate (or pray) clear ur mind of hate, violence, anger. Is it easy? Hell no. dont be mentally lazy it will bw your downfall. If any one is interested in help in thia area read Stephen levines books. For those of us that are terminally ill I highly recommend Healing Into Death.


By anonymous at 04,Jul,12 16:14

I hate my life sometimes and really I have a plenty good reason to, but instead of boiling over what just happened or what happened a while ago I think what im gonna do of what i can do to help people of how i can Not do that to my kids and all of that stuff. ya


By Ummm really? at 10,Jul,12 20:07

Suck my bootyhole


By at 13,Jul,12 12:47

I hate everything...I want to set everything on fire...No, I don't want to die. I don't believe in suicide. There isn't a single person who hasn't tried to hurt me, crush the life out of me. I have no life left. Just the shell of a torn up heart.

I'm 12. Oh, I'm sure that just changed your perspective of my life. I'm just a little kid, right? I must not know what real torture and suffering is like. I'm just a selfish brat with a loving family, because apparently that's what all 12 year olds have.

No one understands...no one gets it. I don't have friends, I have people who are afraid of me. I'm tired of being the monster that everyone fears. I'm tired of being so...so alone. So hated. It's unbearable. This world is so rotten. So much evil, so much hate. So many have tried to cleanse it, purify the sea of lies that everyone so blindly drifts in. They drown slowly, suffocating under the waves of death. I'll never be good enough for them, never fucking enough. I'm just a waste of air, space, and time. I don't deserve to be here. I deserve the worst of death.
But I'm going to show them wrong...I'll show everyone. I'll show you.
By anonymous at 06,Apr,13 20:43

ur story just like mine but the deffrent that im 26yo and all that shit happen to me when i was about ur age.. and i still didnt find a solution to this but if u do let me know i want out of it.


By anonymous at 14,Jul,12 00:48

Just give up


By Laura at 23,Jul,12 17:35

Thanks for posting. I know I shouldn't be such a whiney little bitch


By anonymous at 24,Jul,12 15:48

I HATE MY LIFE -.-


By Sad Girl at 25,Jul,12 22:31

while this is all true, its hard to break the cycle. there are outside things to factor in such as people sucking and circumstances you can't control like your job. while you can pick your job, sometimes you just have to take what you can get with the economy. people are really hard to depend on now and i think that is why so many people feel alone too. so while its all really easy to write this on here like everyone i to blame for their own problems, there is more to it.


By anonymous at 26,Jul,12 10:38

This is the dumbest thing I've ever read.
By anonymous at 26,Jul,12 14:41

die


By anonymous at 29,Aug,12 07:43

What about chronic mental illness? Try writing that off with some hallmark-card horseshit.

At best, life has some isolated pockets of happiness for you, at worst you might as well have swum away from the egg or strangled yourself with the umbilical cord in the womb.

Personally, I wish my parents had tried anal. Or at least splashed out on a pack of three.


By anonymous at 30,Aug,12 03:04

When I can't take care of myself I will never burden my children! I will end it! My luck my mind will go& my body won't. My kid's have been through enough with me as thier mother they do not deserve that. NO ONE DOES!!
By anonymous at 30,Dec,12 05:07

Weather you believe it or not ! Ending your on life no matter what the sitution , is not the anwser you would be selfish. U took care of them for all there life they can take care of u when the time comes ! My mother has a lot of health problems and often talks about ending it all, I cant speak for everyone but I would be absolutely heart broken without her .I know that some day she'll be gone but I dont want it to b becsuse she took her own life bc she thought she was a burden on me I wouldnt be able to live with myself .I want as much time with her as I can get!I know your children feel the same way even if theydont say or show it ! Life sucks sometimes .better there is always . A storm before a sunny day.thr saying what doesnt kill us makes us stronger is so true! Keep your chin up ! It can alwaus be worse!!!


By i cant tell at 06,Apr,13 20:37

dude u never been abused by ur parents u dnt know how it feels n ur parents never treat u like u werent exist.. alotta study aproved that abusive as a child well influence u when u grow up. so shut it and read my story i just post it u will understand wt i mean.


By anonymous at 31,Jul,13 03:37

Music can help people cope. Just listening to it. Also help others when they are in need. That could maybe make some people feel better.


By anonymous at 08,Sep,13 00:43

You guys... Need to calm the fuck down


By anonymous at 02,Jun,14 14:55

Not having money does suck and clearly whoever wrote this has never had to explain to bill collectors why they could not pay , or worse explain to their children why there is not enough food. Not having money is a major source of why I hate my life and I am not boring or materialistic.


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