Thereís really no reason you should hate your life. Many people give excuses as to why they do. Here are 12 common reasons. If you given these excuses then you need to quickly readjust your thinking. When you do, youíll quickly come to enjoy your life.
1. Your parents ruined your life
Many people complain that their parents raised them wrong, set them up for failure, or didnít start a college fund for them. If you can recognize these shortcomings, the you can change the future.
2. You have no money
This is probably the worst excuse. If money is the main reason for your happiness then you will never be happy. Money should not make you enjoy your life or hate it.
3. Your job sucks
If it sucks so much then quit and move on. A bad job should give you motivation to chase your dreams and strive for something better.
4. You have no time
If you have no time to do what you want then you must be letting unimportant tasks get the best of you. Thereís many times when we think something is important or urgent, but in reality it isnít. Recognize when you do this and change your focus to what you desire. Eliminate the unnecessary things that we all have and instantly youíll have more time.
5. You have no one
Many times peopleís depression and reason for hating life is because they feel alone. Itís one of Maslowís Hierarchy of Needs. Everyone must feel that they are wanted and have friends. When you donít feel like you have anyone, you become depressed. But being depressed isnít going to do any better, itís going to chase people further away.
6. Youíre a failure
People say theyíre failures when they donít accomplish something. But they always forget to recall or recognize the successes theyíve had in the past. You will never be a failure as long as you continue. And you never fail to learn from failure. Failure is great.
7. Youíve done nothing with your life
If youíve done nothing productive with your life then get going! Start now or start tomorrow. Itís never too late or too early.
8. Youíre bored
If youíre bored with your job and life, then you arenít challenging yourself enough. Youíve settled with mediocrity. Start dreaming. Write down your dreams and goals, and how you can achieve them. Your life will become exciting in no time.
9. Youíre stuck
Many people hate their lives because they feel like theyíre getting no where fast. Whether it be debt and bills or a bad job, you can begin to plan your escape right now. Create a plan with hundreds of little steps and take at least one step everyday. Once you do so youíre becoming unstuck and before you know it youíve escaped.
10. You let others get to you
You may hate your life because you listen too much to others. Donít listen to naysayers and negative opinions. Donít let others make you hate your life. Most of the time those who make you feel that way, hate their own lives.
11. Youíve stopped yourself
Many of those who hate their lives, do so because they didnít follow through with their dreams. YOU are the most important factor to YOUR joy and happiness.
12. Youíre too negative
If you hate your life then youíre too negative. Change your attitude and youíll enjoy your life.