There’s really no reason you should hate your life. Many people give excuses as to why they do. Here are 12 common reasons. If you given these excuses then you need to quickly readjust your thinking. When you do, you’ll quickly come to enjoy your life.
1. Your parents ruined your life
Many people complain that their parents raised them wrong, set them up for failure, or didn’t start a college fund for them. If you can recognize these shortcomings, the you can change the future.
2. You have no money
This is probably the worst excuse. If money is the main reason for your happiness then you will never be happy. Money should not make you enjoy your life or hate it.
3. Your job sucks
If it sucks so much then quit and move on. A bad job should give you motivation to chase your dreams and strive for something better.
4. You have no time
If you have no time to do what you want then you must be letting unimportant tasks get the best of you. There’s many times when we think something is important or urgent, but in reality it isn’t. Recognize when you do this and change your focus to what you desire. Eliminate the unnecessary things that we all have and instantly you’ll have more time.
5. You have no one
Many times people’s depression and reason for hating life is because they feel alone. It’s one of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs. Everyone must feel that they are wanted and have friends. When you don’t feel like you have anyone, you become depressed. But being depressed isn’t going to do any better, it’s going to chase people further away.
6. You’re a failure
People say they’re failures when they don’t accomplish something. But they always forget to recall or recognize the successes they’ve had in the past. You will never be a failure as long as you continue. And you never fail to learn from failure. Failure is great.
7. You’ve done nothing with your life
If you’ve done nothing productive with your life then get going! Start now or start tomorrow. It’s never too late or too early.
8. You’re bored
If you’re bored with your job and life, then you aren’t challenging yourself enough. You’ve settled with mediocrity. Start dreaming. Write down your dreams and goals, and how you can achieve them. Your life will become exciting in no time.
9. You’re stuck
Many people hate their lives because they feel like they’re getting no where fast. Whether it be debt and bills or a bad job, you can begin to plan your escape right now. Create a plan with hundreds of little steps and take at least one step everyday. Once you do so you’re becoming unstuck and before you know it you’ve escaped.
10. You let others get to you
You may hate your life because you listen too much to others. Don’t listen to naysayers and negative opinions. Don’t let others make you hate your life. Most of the time those who make you feel that way, hate their own lives.
11. You’ve stopped yourself
Many of those who hate their lives, do so because they didn’t follow through with their dreams. YOU are the most important factor to YOUR joy and happiness.
12. You’re too negative
If you hate your life then you’re too negative. Change your attitude and you’ll enjoy your life.