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Glad they are not therapists eh?
I felt like you did about a woman. My first love.
I lost my appetite when she left me. I was a walking skeleton. I think we are ust extra sensetive and it does
not serve us well. I found out later that she could not
stay in a relationship with anyone for more than 4 years!
I thought I would never get over her, no matter how I tried.
The only thing that helped was the passage of time. I
found new loves, but none as special as her. But she had
"the grass is always greener" syndrome. Meaning she always
thought there was something better for her. Which of course
is a dillusion for most.
Then I met another woman that just captured my heart.
I never fell so hard for someone before. But she could
not love me the way I loved her. So I went through the
same loss as I did years before. I ended up marrying a girl
out of desperation. We have been together for 20 years.
But we are incompatible. And I am still unhappy. I only
think of the good ol days.
My advice? Don't let yourself fall for anyone. Your better
off getting a dog. They will always be loyal to you and
love you every day. Go out with women, have fun....but
just don't get involved. Today's women are mean, sarcastic
and too independant to be in a long term relationship.
Your behavior is probably repelling her even more, especially if you've cried and begged her to take you back. Women don't want a crying, weak man. Sorry just being honest. And your life should never revolve around another person, because people are very unreliable and will let you down and disappoiint you. Once can truly only depend on themself.
Don't kill yourself over another person, that's just... silly. People were meant to come into and out of lives, mating for life is so unrealistic these days. Move on, find other joys and things that give you pleasure. And remember, you're not alone, many people have been there and survived!
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