|Posted by anonymous at May 3, 2012
I've been in a long time marriage, well it seems long to me, about 5 years to be exact. I just got a divorce 3 months ago. I have 2 kids with this ungrateful Bitch and when the divorce was final, all she wanted was money, she didn't care about nothing else, not even the kids. So she now moved on with her life and about to be remarried, she's now trying to sue my for child support, but at the same time she wants nothing to do with the kids because her new brew doesn't care very much for children. I'm now in a big custody battle with her and trying to win full custody of my kids, by the way they both boys. It's really hard because a judge will be sensitive when it come to taking kids away from their mother, but little do they know she doesn't want them and only want them for money. Every since the divorce, my life has been pure hell and dominated by my Bitch ex wife. I would rather die than to let my boys be with her and her new boyfriend whom I know nothing about. If he doesn't care a lot for children, think what he will try to do to my kids because he wants more of her time. I'm going to win full custody of my boys and when I does, she and her bastard fag friend can burn in HELL.
|Posted by no jobsha at April 16, 2012
Three months ago, I was what most would consider a successful person. I worked as a RN case manager in home care. I loved my work and had been doing it for 20 years, 10 years in Michigan.
I went to college when I was in my late twenties, after my husband left me. I worked and went to school with 2 small children at home. I became a nurse. It was great. I moved to Arizona, lived there for 15 years.
Came back to Michigan when my daughter had children. My grand children. I worked there as a case manager in home care. Doing what I do best, caring for other people.
In June my sister was diagnosed with colon cancer, she had surgery in august. I worked every day, then went to the hospital to take care of her. Make sure she gets up and walks, that she is eating right and that she is telling them about any pain.
When she was released, I worked every day and went to her home every evening to take care of her. She lives 40 miles from me. I did this for two weeks. When she was able to care for her self, get out of bed without assist, make her on food and shower alone, I went home after work on a Friday evening.
I was sitting at home and decided I would go have a few beers at a bar close to an old apartment that I used to go to. I liked to play keno. Long story short, I was stopped for speeding and arrested for driving while intoxicated. I did what every one does and obtained an lawyer, went to court. Did not get much help from my attorney, I didnít...
|Posted by Leslie at April 14, 2012
I have never commited a crime. I just happen to be in the wrong place a the wrong time. I was picked becuase I matched the descrition of a an armed robbery suspect. The put in a line with 6 other women. I was pegged by the witness as the one who robbed the store. I was not me. I got no bail and then my arrainment then my trial and I was convicted becuase they jury siad that I was guilty and I began to cry. I setenced to 15 years which is the maximum in my state. I was but in a van with 5 other women and i teenage girl. When I go the prison i bagan to cry again. the gaurds heard us in to he prison I was crying the entrie time. One gaurd asked what was the matter and I told her that I was faly arrested for a crime I did not commit. I was tkaen to withe girl and ther other and told to strip. One of the guards said when the basket is full give ther gaurd. I knew then that I would need to take off my bra and panties as well. they me a towel and told to take shower. the gave three bras three pairs panties and three pairs of socks. and on orange uniform. I spent 12 years there unitl they found the perosn who did the crime. I lost my job my hose my car. I have nowehere to go. No job to get becuase of the economy. My family took me in and they given a roof over my head abd a place to sleep and food. All things I need to live. I did sue the store owner and the police department it is still pending
|Posted by sparky at April 10, 2012
Hey guys and gals. I'm a 24 year old guy, I have a job, and a degree in IT. I feel like I am intellegent not overly so but not stupid. I have a job most people would kill for it only pays around $10/h but I sit around and watch tv and play games all day everyday. I graduated back in December with a 2.5GPA due mainly to the fact that I had to work full time as an over night stocker at walmart. In highschool I had a long distance girlfriend who later moved in with me and we spent seven years togeather. Last February I was arrested for shoplifting. Aparently I bagged up some snacks at the self check in walmart and walked out without paying. Noone bothered to tell me or send me anything in the mail so I missed several courtdates and had warrents out for my arrest. My lawyer managed to keep me out of jail but its still on my record. I cant find a job in my field that will take me. My girlfriend broke my heart for some guy online a few months ago and keeps saying she is going to move out. Shes unemployed and cant drive. If I abandon her she wont be able to make it on her own even if she does find a job she could walk to. I actually convinced her to quit the job she had because it was stressing her out. So now I go to work every morning and do nothing all day because I have no responsibilites at work(Ive tried for several opertunites at advancing with no luck). I then go home and sleep on my couch doing the same things I do at work. Ive managed to somehow keep a few friends that...
|Posted by Candy at April 8, 2012
I went on vacation in Mexico. I was looking at all kinds of things and I di buy some things. two weeks as I wa going home I got stopped customs the checked my bags and one was one bught and when the search they a brick of heroin. I did know that was in the bag. I di not inspect the items i bought. I was arrested for having in my bag. I got in touch with the American embessy. They siad they try to clear it. My t court hearing came the next day. i sentence and immetaly iw sent to women's prsion in Mexico. As soon as I entered they told to strip nude for what hey caleed the BCS (BODY CAVITY SEARCH). They made me take shower and put a white unform with balc strip down the leg of the uniform. I was not a bra or any panties. You may Women's prison in the us is strict the Mexcian ones are much more tough. I got 5 years. I only spent a year and ahalf there becuase the they found that the owner of te shop where i bough the bag was getting ususpecting to smuggle heroin into the US. that how I got he chrges drop against. the gave y clothes back and I was free to leave and told never to come back to Mexico or br arrested I got ot Florfia now if I want sand and beach I can findit closer to home.
|Posted by anonymous at April 2, 2012
I'm a 21 year old who was just arrested for the first time. After a very stupid alcohol-fueled night I'm facing a mischief under $5000 charge and my court date is a little over 2 months from now. I'm away at college right now in my junior year, but for the past several months i haven't really felt like i should be here. I'm not putting any effort into my studies and I feel worthless, but I don't have the motivation to pull myself out of this rut. I've been given every opportunity to succeed: i skipped a grade in grade school, went to a private high school, and got into a prestigious college. I feel as if I have not been doing a good job with my life in general. My 2 older brothers have both gradusted from college and have started their careers, one is to be married in october.
I've been dealing with depression on and off for the past several years. My Mom has been battling bi-polar for as long as I can remember and a couple of years ago she attempted to take her own life. Her marriage to my Dad has been far from perfect and she essentially blames my Dad for her mental illness because she was not involved in family decisions and neglected.
I've yet to tell a soul about my arrest, but there's a chance I could have this on a criminal record for life. A record, in my eyes, makes me having what I would consider to be a successful life extremely difficult. I don't know how to tell my family or relatives about getting arrested, but I hate the idea of burdening myself with another secret.
I've never seriously considered suicide and am not considering it now, but even before my arrest I was unsure of where my life was heading and was not hopeful for the future. Then i found myself in handcuffs...
|Posted by anonymous at March 30, 2012
What's up? I am a 31 year old male. It seems no matter how hard I try I can never have any kind of luck. I committed a minor offense of attempted forgery when I was barley 18. But I guess in the eyes of texas it was serious enough to be a felony and follow me for the rest of my life with no chance of ever getting it expunged. So thanks to a foolish teenage mistake my chances of gainful employment are ruined forever. Then also in the stat of texas they frown on driving with no insurance which I did in 99 and 2000 and of course with my luck there is no stature of limitations on traffic tickets in texas either so I do not have a drivers licenced and have not had one since 2004. In 02 and 03 my wife of 6 years decided to have a couple of little ones without my help. We divorced in 06. So in o6 and 08 I have a couple of little ones and.surprise surprise I get hit with child support. So on toolbox having to work shit jobs now I can take home about 125 a week but am currently unemployed because I got fired from pizza hit for giving the birch that stuck me for child support a 50percent discount. And to top that all off my only means of transportation broke down last week 4 hour away from the house while I was job hunting.
|Posted by anonymous at March 14, 2012
i'm a 19 year old male living with my father,mother's living with new husband about 4 miles away from where i live every day i'm torn into making decisions from whose side to chose based on what happens...every month or so it's a new trip to court which are for a child support case concerning my brother and sister. i have yet to recieve my high school diploma due to constant suspensions from school which ended in me leaving once i turned 18.as for relationships...ive been single for 5 years so far, females have asked me why i am single and that i'm too cute to be single so much its unbelievable...i always respond,"i just haven't found the right one" but truthfully i just fear that the same situation as my parents will happen to me..you could say i'm terribly scarred for quite a wile. financially i've been working part time at a golf course waking up at 4am to get ready. my shifts are from 5am-10pm weekends only which is barely enough to pay my liability charges for a car crash i was involved in at age 17. the same car i put up for sale a few days ago on craigslist working perfectly just to get called the next day demanding a refund because the vehicles engine blew. police were involved,but the officer that arrived turned out to be a racist because even though i had the upper hand because i had already given the vehicle up at the dmv i was forced to give the money back by the caucasian officer without even hearing the story, and the person demanding the money was also caucasian. so now im car-less, money-less, my next liability bill is due in 2 weeks and i have no way to get to work to make money. so what to i do? my only options are if i miraculously win at least 1000 dollars in a lotto scratcher for a temp. car or kill myself....u.s.a land of the free....not really
|Posted by AV at March 7, 2012
Last February, I was arrested, and I ended up spending 26 days in jail for sending apologetic, obsessive, and stupid e-mails to a woman who wanted nothing to do with me. I used to have a good job, a nice apartment, and good community. My life was beginning to move in a positive direction. I now have a criminal record, and I lost my job in October. I am fortunate enough to live in the back room of someone in my communities house. But I have been here for 4 months already, and I know I need to leave sooner or later. I have no money, $1.06 to my name. I have applied for many jobs but no luck. My family lives in a foreign country, and I feel very alone, and without direction. I am angry at myself, and at G-d, and very sad that I have lost so much control over my life, and I have a criminal record for something upsetting, and for being hurtful. I feel suicidal a lot of times, and like my life makes no sense. I strive to be a good person, but I get very lost. I am homosexual, and transgender, and I feel a lot of guilt and shame, I feel I am a bad person. I used to be happy. I feel I have no identity and no integrity, and I wish I did. I cry a lot, because I am not sure what I should do. I am waiting for my unemployment cheques but the process got slowed down. I can't pay for therapy. I don't know, from what I understand, my father suffered from a stroke, and I have not been able to talk him. I don't have much of a relationship with family anymore. I hate my life....
|Posted by anonymous at February 29, 2012
Before I start Id like to express my empathy for the other users, you guys are going through some extremely tough, and sad situations and all of you are so strong for hanging in there... continuing to live through these circumstances takes a truly special person, and all of you should consider this fact. My life hasnt been so different, I have been blessed with a completely functional body and mind however my days have been a disaster. Im only twenty and i have zilch for friends, every friend i have ever had has completely drained me of my recources and then dropped me like a bad habbit. I figure part of being a friend is doing things for eachother, but it seems that this is a one way street in my instance. When I was 8-13 my so called friends would convince me to do delinquent, but hilarious things at school. I always thought this was a mutual relationship with my peers but Ive realized that I was only being used, as thats as far as any of my friendships went... them laughing while I was hauled off to suspension. This unhealthy relationship with my peers eventually led me to doing more and more to gain their approval until I was removed from school and thrown into detention. I spent 3 months away from my home and family. When I got out I thought I had found some real friends, we would hang out after school and they really didnt pressure me into anything. A month later all 3 of them robbed the local pizza place in the middle of the night. Next thing I know i was the pr...
Where to start? I'm 31 years old and have a masters degree in management, but no real job. I had to quit my last job of 8.00 an hour working for the State of DE as a part time employee for their public shooting range due to environmental factors. These factors included lead exposure and fear of being shot on a daily basis due to lack of training for employees. I know what your thinking and that's did he call OSHA about the lead at least? Yes I did and apparently they have no control over what the State of DE does, but can write tickets all day long to the private citizen. Go figure that one! Although while working there for the past eight months, I did try and move up the ladder in the organization only to be passed up twice to people that were "politically connected" as my former boss would say. To make matters worse I have lived with my parents for the passed three years and see no hope in sight for that situation to change. I even make it a habit to apply to five jobs a day and rarely I get a call back. I know what your thinking and it's that this guy must have something wrong with him? I have a masters and can market myself very well! In fact before the collapse of home building, I was making six figures in sales, had a nice place to live and drove a brand new Boxster! Now I drive a second hand Focus and easily get depressed thinking about the good old days when I had money and this is shallow, but women came in the package too.
After losing everything life...
|Posted by sad, mad and terrified at January 14, 2012
My husband of 12 years has getting drunk and hit me for years. He gets away with this. The police could care less. Justice is a joke. How can he do this? We have three beautiful children together. He says he loves me and them. He has knocked me out numerous times. When I say I am leaving he threatens harm to family and friends. I am scared of him. He got us kicked out of our apartment earlier this year, he was taking my money for drugs. Now we are in his mothers house. Which is really no better, she is also a violent drunk also. She stands over him and tells him to kill me. Is there anyone out there who cares? How can he think this is love? Any advise?
|Posted by Eli Kange at December 31, 2011
I am 17 year old. My name is Eli Kange, and this is my story. When I was 2, my Mom died in a car crash. Some drunk bastard hit her from the back and she dies. I loved her so much. My brother is about 5 years older than me, and life for us went swimmingly until, when I was 5, my Dad was found guilty for drug possesion and driving without a license. But what actually happened was, my Dad's friend was drunk so Dad took the wheel. He was speeding a little, and when the cops pulled him over they found 13 lbs. of cocain that belonged to my Dad's friend. So the friend was found innocent and my Dad went to jail and will not be out for 28 years. So we went to stay with my Uncle Nathan. He was an actuall crackhead. We moved out when I was 11 and we were put into foster care together. When he was 17, he got a girl named Angie pregnent. She was so nice. I lived with them and my neice, Halie, for a while. When my brother was 20 and Angie was 19, she went to collage in Africa. And a year later, he was sent to jail for use of ecstasy and weed. So here I am, 17 with a 5 year old girl to take care of and remt to pay. There are far more worse situations out there, but for me, my life fucking sucks.
|Posted by anonymous at December 30, 2011
so.. i got suspended from my work as a cashier after being short three times with a total of a thousand dollars. I can honestly tell to God that I really had no idea where that money went. A week later after I got suspended, police arrested me because the company I am working for filed a felony theft case against me. That is probably the worst nightmare in my life. Until now, I cant believe that I would go through that in my life. Now, I am unemployed. I feel so helpless because I cannot help out my family with our financial needs. This file charged against me and the arrested record will stay on my name until I prove to the court that I am innocent. I pity myself. Most importantly, I am supposed to be in the nursing program starting in 3 weeks and we have to submit and prove that we have a clean criminal background check. Ive been so worried that after all my hard work just to get in to the program, I will end up getting kick out because they will see my arrest record. Finishing nursing school is my very first priority in life and my family's dream. Now that I am not sure if I will be able to go to the nursing program, I feel like my life is just stuck. I dont know what Im supposed to do right now. Im so disappointed, mad, sad, and terrified what is the future waiting for me. What if they won't believe that I am innocent, what if I go in jail again? My dream will all fall apart. My family's hope will be crushed. You see I was supposed to be the first person in the family that will graduate in college. I got scholarships and government grants that pays for my tuition fees and school expenses. I work so hard but everything will go to nothing just because I was accused of something I DID NOT DO. I keep praying to GOD that I hope they'll find out the truth. I wish they will find where the money really went. But its been a month, and my court date is getting closer. They haven't drop the charge still. I don't know what to do. My life sucks.
|Posted by liddy at December 6, 2011
Well for starters, I am typing this off the public library computer about 8 miles from my parents existance. Parents- dont have any- dead as far as im concerned.
My fiance just got put in jail and is looking at 10-30 years in prison. Once he was taken to jail I lost our apartment. My parents will not take me in and will not even answer the phone for me. My son was taken from my custody when he was only 5 1/2 weeks old. He is 9 months almost 10 now and I am pregnant again. I am homeless, have no money, no food and nowhere to sleep. I have a bookbag and a blanket, dont even have a jacket, now tell me my life doesnt suck!
Im not asking for a pitty party, just letting everyone know that just because your parents dont let you do this or that or school is stressful, think again, because does it really suck? Are things the worst they could be? Nope, not even for me. Im sure theres still someone out there who is worse off than me.
|Posted by dave at November 25, 2011
i was with this girl since eight years but stuff happened and i started to cheat on her. once she caught me with her friend. before i could say anything she shot her friend with her fathers gun and then killed herself. the cops framed me with a double killing case and i am on a run. i tried killing myself but someone saved me and handed me to the asylum. i needed money so i robbed the asylum and ran away. i had stolen a car, and at the toll booth the officials frisked the car. the car had heroine in the boot.
i am almost dead now.i have four serious cases against me and i am sure they'll kill me. this all happened without any mistake of mine. thus sucks. i hate it. fuck.
|Posted by SickandTired at November 23, 2011
When I was 17, I was on the top of the world. I was one of the Top fifty college football prospects in the state. I was on my way to a big university. Season is almost over and i get real bad sick, hospitalized. Lost almost eighty pounds over he next few months. Scholarship goes out the window. So i end falling in the love at 18, i've never been one to trust anybody and i let my guard down. I go off to college (in same county, still live at home) and by the end of the first semester im ready to marry this girl, one day i have some problems downtstairs so i go to see the doc. Turns out i have a bacterial infection, clamydia, awesome so the girl im bout to propose to gets a train run on her by two of my best friends! and gives me chlamydia! HAHA! so i go on a little depression experiment with drugs then get my life back together. Go back to school, have my own apartment now, have a good job everything seems to be working out. Unfortunately i was still smoking weed at this time, i ride with a buddy so he can pick up some product, he decides to rob the dealer, dealer turns out to be an undercover detective, im in the passenger seat so i go down with a six year sentence also. Spend almost two years in prison. Finally get out, enrolled back in school, meet the most amazing girl i've ever met in my life and i get her pregnant. Im a fucking bum that can't even get a job at the shittiest of places because of my felony. How do i support this baby? No one will give me a chance, and i feel like i've completely ruined her life because she is stuck with me now. I understand why so many people end up going back to prison because in our society, regardless of what you did, if you're a felon, then youre a modern day leper.
|Posted by WTF at November 16, 2011
I'm 26, divorced, just lost my job and was denied unemployment benifits. I lost my truck to impound when I was caught driving with out a licence, I currently have 3 warrents for my arrest and have 1 case in another state I've been trying to fight for the last 8 months. Due to my increasingly expensive drug and alcohol addiction and no longer having a job, I can't afford to pay rent and have to find somewhere else to go by the end of the month. To top it all off the only calls I get each day are from creditors harassing me about the bad debts my ex-wife and I accumulated over the past 5 years..........I'm realizing I have failed miserably in life....
|Posted by anonymous at November 15, 2011
Where to start...found out I was pregnant,I got fired and arrested at my job(long story short I went to the store for a friend where I worked she gave me a stolen gift card),I have a criminal record now, I got my first traffic violation,can't find a job so I sold pretty much everything I owned so I could get stuff for the baby I had my beautiful daughter :) my boyfriend won't take care of are daughter so he never changed a diaper , feed her or got up in the middle of the night it feels like I'm taking care of two babies. since we brought are daughter home from the hospital we have not slept in the same bed together, as I'm getting up to take care of the baby he's going to bed and sleeps until 5 in the evening. I found out he was cheating on me so I tried to leave but he broke his hand by punching the door and tells me if I ever try to leave again he will bash my head in. so I'm scared to leave but I did get my ged and my stna license, now I'm just hoping to find a job and save up enough money to move far away but know one wants to hire me because of my criminal record I just don't want my daughter to be in this house hold no more with all the fighting and the people coming in and out of the house all the time and him selling drugs I'm just so scarred that this is it my life.
|Posted by puck1965 at October 25, 2011
I am despondent. I cannot save or protect my wife of 21 years from some unknown, unnamed medical problem. She's been ill for 3+ years. She had an abdominal ultrasound today. They found something, but haven't told us what yet. I don't know if she is dying or will recover. No one seems to know. The only constant is that she is in pain daily.
I am powerless.
My 18 year old special needs child is being accused of harassment by a 17 year old special needs child and her mother, who also has some type of anxiety disorder. It has progressed to legal action on the part of the mother. I have no idea how to fix this. I am powerless to protect my son, who (according to corroborated sources within the school administration) has done nothing wrong.'
He doesn't understand; nor do I.
I am powerless.
The gentleman who has sat next to me at work for the past 5 1/2 years and who has functioned as a mentor for me died today.
All this (and MORE!!!) happened in the past five days. I am lost. I am powerless.