LIFE SUCKS : 2011 October

It sucks to be a man at this time in History

*Cant get that job for taking off your clothes.
*Men cook now days, even better than women do.
*Men can't live for free by sleeping with the owner in most cases, women can
*Men can't do a handjob or riding in car and have his car filled with petrol
*Men can't lose his virginity by selling it online, some unattractive ones do pay to get rid of it
*Men without proper training and education are destined to physical labour, women can dance for the least educated position
*Men who cry are pussies, women who cry are sympathy summoner.
*Men could have fist fight in any stage in life, women dont normally have it
*Men are expected to know things, women are expected to do just CERTAIN things that men do.
*Men who have no money are expandables, women who have no money are easy picks and baby makers. (Think international 4 this one) Thus women are more valuable by their sexual and reproductive natures.

It sucks o be a man. You can't screw the that woman by simply asking. There are alot more involved than that.

Classic method---- get a girl friend: Normally you and your gf does not have the same interests, but you are stuck for a commonly accepted notion, the so called relationship. So you are stuck, the act of mating does not happen whenever you want it. Your girl friend normally is not capable of doing what actress of various kinds do on TV in the act of mating and cooking nicely in the kitchen. When seeing each other or living ...

I dont understand

I really dont get it. they say hard work pays off... they say i need to keep trying and trying... i do... i push myself to the limit in everything i do and i dont have the energy to continue pushing myself.

After studying my ass off and going into interview after interview i got internship. That is all i wanted. I prepared for every interview and researched every company. It took me two semesters. I kept hearing "you were great but we want someone with more experience"

My friend, he is lazy... he never prepares. He didnt get an internship. He ended up getting given a part time job. After he interviewed he was asked for references and was so lazy he forgot to give them. Someone else was hired but with his luck he was given a second chance when that person quit and not he has a part time job which apparently makes him very employable. Far more than me who studies and works hard. He gets given second interviews when he doesnt work for them.

I on the other hand get rejection after rejection. Why do lazy people get everything.

All my life i pushed myself... it is supposed to pay off right?\

When I was 3 my dad died. I am 23 now. 2 years ago my stepdad, the only dad i had really known, died. It broke my heart.

I am stupidly in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend. Have been for a year and a half. We fight so much that I often think of breaking up. Almost did a few days ago. But she said she didnt think she would...

I don't know what to do

I am a married man to beautiful boys and wife but no matter what I do the darkness seems to find me on paper I Have the idea life but I feel like everything and everyone I know would be better without me i got to tell you if i didn't have sons I wouldn't be here today. I have nothing to put my fath in I don't believe in god and I am 26 years old walking a cane whe n I found, out i would have to stop cooking my life changed my first love taken from me and the darkness found me again sense i was 14 . My wife and I are at a breaking point she doesn't like having sex any more are marrage is horrible I just don't know what to do killing myself seems the only option.

it's true, life does suck

people say to pray and that angels will answer your prayers. bullshit. then they say it's part of god's plan that you suffer. always an excuse. neverending. god has never shown himself to me and i've no reason to believe in him and i'm supposed to burn in hell for not believing in him? please. i'm 26 years old and graduated from a top school in california with a shitty useless degree and can't find a decent job because the economy is shit and the truth is, jobs are stupid. our earth is finite yet we treat it like growth can go on forever. i developed eczema on my face a year ago out of nowhere so i feel like a piece of shit all the time even though it's not my fault. i found out that if i eat anything besides chicken and vegetables, my face will break out in eczema and it's neverending, it's dry, hard, red, rashy, TERRIBLE. people are so fucking selfish and evil and our government is completely inept. why shouldn't people be allowed to kill themselves with a painless drug? why hasn't this been allowed to pass? there's so much suffering and people resort to gunshots to the head or knives through the heart. i hate people and i hate this world. a big fuck you to everyone.

What a suck bf

I have been working for 5 years after gratuate but not even save a cent. My bf even worst, his working performance base on his mood. I earn money for 2 persons expenses. I hate it! I really hate it!! How am i going to continue my entire life like this? Everytime will sure quarrel if talking about money and expenses, but seem like never appreciate my afford. I just hope i can stop loving him.. I want a better life and I want happiness!!

mrs

so like most of you I been unemployed for a long time...not that I haven't tried to get a job, I routinely get up early and seek posts all over the internet, and spend most of my day changing my cv to fit positions and writing cover letters that hopefully will land me a job...I have a degree that seems to be my main problem, currently I am studying a masters degree to hopefully improve my chances or make me more overqualified to do anything.
I can't deny that life is hard at times and thankfully my husband supports me; and I am so thankful for that, but everyday I can feel our relationship deteriorating as I can contribute to our household. I think my biggest problem is that I have become what I always feared a housewife....it makes me so sad that I know I have the potential and the papers to prove I can do something better but I can't even get a job as a receptionist... I am so scared I will not brake out this cycle and will continue to alienate myself from others cause I can't even afford to go out for a cup of coffee and I can even ask my husband for money for bus rides...at this point I don't even know if I can conclude my studies, as the economical pressure is to much. If it wasn't for my dog and the thought of my family I would have probably committed suicided a long time ago...life will get better I just don't know if I'll make it to see the day...

My own bad luck

I am only 23 years old, I had a shitty childhood with an abusive father and both parents were addicted to cocaine. I got my ass kicked by my dad, for no reason except his own self-hate, from 1 until I was 10. My mother cleaned up her life and we moved on, i graduated high school, neither of parents did, and i had a great girlfriend. My girlfriend's brother got me a great job at a bank right out of high school making more money then my mom was making. I was there about 2 years and those 2 years were not easy but not terrible, my best friend shot himself. Couple nights later I got a dui and then violated my probabtion by driving with suspended license. Now i am living on my own at this point and after court fees and lawyer fees and all that, i was past due on everything and for God knows what reason i decided to take money from my job at the bank, i did it twice to the total amount of 7500 dollars. I was arrested, and sentenced to 2 years probation and had to pay it off. Needless to say my girlfriend's family hated me but she stuck by my side and supported me though the whole thing. But 1 year in I got arrested for marijuana and that is a violation of probation, so I had a warrant out for my arrest and the only reason i didnt turn myself is was because my girlfriend ended up getting pregnant. I end up turning myself in and she still stuck by my side, and even helped me pay some money back with her student loans for my original charge. Now i am free man and have the most be...

I'm 29 no kids and no prospects, I was raised in a military family where I love you was something only heard in movies. I'm the youngest of 4 and the only boy needless to say my parents had no problem letting me know what kind of disappointment I was everyday. I was always a bit reclusive in my younger years which led to not having many friends on top the fact we moved on a regular basis. When I was 17 I did a lot of LSD, which only caused a studder when I spoke and actually made me not want to be around people. The hardest things for me these days are watching what friends I do have start families, hell I'm good looking with a decent job but life just won't fall in place for me. The closest I came to happiness was with the love of my life. I completely self destructed that relationship with cold feet. Now I live in regret for leaving her and her son like I did. The worst was I hurt that little boy that loved me so much, I think this is a proper punishment for hurting those two very special people. I've lived a rough life nothing ever came easy, life is just hard. It's those who push on through all obsticals against all odds to be better, to strive for happiness. If you get off your pity parades and make positive changes your bound to never be lonely. Believe no one wants to be around someone that's depressed all the time. Don't lay blame on your parents even if they were shitty or how hard things were growing up. Were all individuals that make our own choices. It's your choice to be alone or not.

hate myself

Hi, everbody. I put myself in real misery. My name's Michael and i have had a wonderful relationshinr myself with my partner, but at a certain point she started to close me out. We're not married, so i guess this kind of something might just happen. But our feelings before the problems started was so sincere and deep and mutual. Now she left me. Beacuse i started being jealous all the time and i got seriously paranoid about her, resulting in me (a 22 yr old guy) bursting out in tears every time something went wrong - the reason why she left. I could never imagine myself crying before that started. She gave me a second chance yesterday and instead of making it up i got all sad about her not keeping her promises and started crying again. She left me forever. I hate myself, i feel so deeply wounded and guilty at the same time. Thanks for reading this.

trapped in a pile of my own shit!

I know it's my fault. I wasted too much time partying & day dreaming. I just always hated doing what everyone told me to do. Now I'm middle aged and shit is so fucking boring and lame. No surprise huh? I've made too many mistakes guys. Not thinking shit through. Not really listening to what I really felt inside. Too stupid to stop and consider things.
I've got 2 kids now. Teenagers. I've been out of work for 2 yrs. Never finished High School (got a GED), never got a degree-not that I ever wanted one. Never fell in love and THAT is what hurts the most.

I've banged lots of women. Some way out of my league too. But I could never close the deal with THE beautiful woman that I really wanted 'cause deep down, I was always too afraid of what people think about me. And how they won't like me or think I'm ugly or think I'm weird.
So I'd just get drunk instead. Or just exercise. So just like that, I probably missed my chance to finally have her.
Then I got "saved". Becoming a Christian was probably the biggest mistake of my entire life. What a waste of 10 years of my youth. Fuck me! FUCK ME!
Then I married a decent woman, but I didn't really love her. I thought she was the best I could do. Of course she cheated on me. I divorced her and though I had a very good job, I hated that fucking job. Shit, I've hated every job I've ever had. You know why? Cause I never really knew myself and what it was I really wanted. When I found out. I was too chicken.
W...

Really, really shit.

41, broke, big house thats half empty because I've sold most of the furniture (no, I cant sell the house, its in negative equity, and the bank is foreclosing anyway - same as on my old place, that I still own & cant F*****g sell; they'll both be gone in a month).
Had a nice car, sold it, got a worse one; done that so much these last 2 years, the next step's a bicycle.
£60000 on credit cards, got made redundant; so did my partner; our business crashed. I opened another, selling antiques on Ebay - went great til Ebay shut it down (and dont get me started on that....). No employment history these last 5 years (except business failures).
Drinking about 80 units a week (its a wonder how I find the money).
Massively fucking depressed, but at least the Prozac nightmares have stopped.
Trapped in a city I fucking hate, full of thick, racist scum. Its a shithole.
My friends all live far away.
cant see an end to it. My head is throbbing constantly. I would give anything just to sleep properly for a night. Bailiffs at the door and on the phone (I dont answer the phone anymore).
Its been going on for years, but my head feels so bad now I just want it to stop, and I dont really care how.

i hate money : but money love me

we are in time if u not have one pound you will die hungry . u have money u r good man but if u not have u r boring one . so my story : i am sure it is the same alot of sotries : which is i wana to be me not what the socity want so if ido what i want maybe in final i will die from the hungrey > but if the i was agree with the society i adoubt the socitey he will ate me > so i am now standing beettwen two fires _myself_and socity .
i love to be simple and nature help people and listen to thier problems
and in final they said : u r crazy u not understand thing in the life your active it is very old not agree with society . when i go to hear what is rules his society strcture on it iam here surppriesed > very difficult to be alive with people in the same society u live not on your mind or not on behavior . ok u ask me why not to go to find job: i answer u i tryied but your maind and soul not agree together > so i do not what i say more maybe thereisnot any reason to take moeny or really there is reason > u will tell me if i will take or no .
thanks my god to be live . and write this msg .
thanks all

I got one for you people!

Well let's just say I am on my mid 30's, being single for about a year and half. Pretty much all my friends moved on and got married..so no real friends to go and hang. I'm very active outdoors and gym. But my job consist of seating in a car, all alone, watching peoples behaviour. I can go days without having a conversation with a human, even when they are all around. I do sometimes do feel alone, but I know it could be worst! I have learned to cope with solitude...

Today one of my best friends texted me and told me that he was going on a date with this girl. I have loved this girl for years, but never been able to venture past this and get out more than a sentence from her. I know I'm really creepy and all. I planned things specifically that she would come to hoping that we would talk and possibly become friends. I got my license because I thought that if we ever got together I'd look like a loser if I didn't have a car. I'd come up with excuses to talk to her family, who I've come to know well. I'd fall asleep thinking of ways to bump into her or talk to her. I tried to get into lucid dreaming so I could get coffee with her while I slept. I probably created a person who doesn't exist in my mind. I'd think I was over her only to fall for her again.

Just causally texting my friend today to get him to go to a party I was hosting, and since I knew he was friends with this girl, suggesting that he invite her to because she "seems nice". He then tells me that he's going on a date with her on saturday, because they really click.

I've been sobbing my eyes out for two hours now. I don't even know what to do. I know there's other girls out there, but she's the only one I've ever even been sexually attracted too. It sounds so stupid and shallow, and it is, it shouldn't be making me this upset. Yet I'm sitting here typing about how I'd go through hell for this girl I barely know, and I've basically based my life around her.

whats is this about bro.

first of ive know posted a quite a couple of post but this is helping me so im posting each if my problems separate,well my post for today i have social anxiety and i want to know why girls might be doing this i am an african american male tall and skinny and dark.i dont talk proper or anything or very much at all.i chill by myself.this post 4 today is i want to why do the black girls do dis.a girl will pick one girl in a group of their friends an they will tell me that the girl likes me or wanna go with me then as soon as i look at them they reject me know i dont dont tell that fuckin boy that or eewwah someting or one time they tried putting girls againts me and there trying to get away from me.then some some will treat me bad like what you lookin at.its embarreses me badly. i just want yall to answer me about what does this mean and why are they doing it to me.

ungrateful people who use a good heart

you do everything for family and friends yet ther e is no gratefulness there or reciprocal kind deed in return,. they are shallow shallow piles of shit
is it that my brain and mind is mopre advanced than theirs, and i should pity them; and just acept that, for myself, i am not going to have a good life. i suppose that at 51 i should already have realised that.. after a life of give give give

Yes Life Can Suck

I typed into my google browser....Life Sucks, because I was frustrated today. This site was the top listed site google offered me on this topic.

I admit, I am frustrated with my life today.

But after reading some of the posts, I want to say this.......

Life doesnt only suck. There are good things to be found in life. A beautiful sunset, a clear sunny day, birds singing and a huge glowing full moon.

Dont loose hope ya'll. I know this is going to sound so cliche, but Im going to say it anyway.......

Your not alone. God loves you and your life has meaning. Don't dispair!

The World sucks, Not Life

It's not that nice guys finish last, it's that nice guys finish last because of all the other assholes in the race.

I am 21 years old, finishing up a Gen Eds. course in college to transfer to a four year college, I own my car (not in too great a shape), and I currently live at home. I have $200 in the bank.

This isn't much of a personal sob story, as it is a message to others who might feel the same, might feel they themselves are the only ones affected.

Your not Alone.

It's not your life that sucks, it's the heartless pricks around you that are kicking you around, stealing from you, harming you, degrading you.

You open a door for them, they shut it in your face.
You say "thank you", they demand "more".
When you can take advantage of someone you help instead, Health Insurance... need I say more?

We are born into a civilization that would rather have the many hold the few up high, rather than have everyone coast on the same level. With that idea, the weak-minded, weak hearted, and just plain ruthless are capable of surviving.

I work at Happy Joe's delivery, and first hand knowledge I can say that the poor people I deliver to (Those in rather shoddy houses) tip far, far more often than those in rich, gated, communities.

This system of money granting unparalleled power plays on the weak minded. They see money as power, whereas the nice guys, it's paper with a face that everyone else seems to be killing each other for.

Lonely and hoping for change

I'm 27, i havent had any friends in years. The last friend i had was met through an arrangement and it turned out that she didnt have friends because she was a little unbalanced. My life is hopefully getting better. I made it through to the second round of job interviews to do desktop support at a bank. There are two other guys i'm running against. The next interview is psychometric analysis and finger printing. I'm sure i'll be fine, how hard could it be? I also have a second interview this week to work at an electronics store, not as impressive as being able to work at a bank but the travel distance is 10mins. I am so close to recovering and getting my act together.

betrayed

my life was good really good i met the man of my dreams got married moved to a new area and made loads of new friends, every thing was perfect until little things started to go wrong i found out that my husband was talking to ex-girlfriends and signing on to dating sites my friends help me through the rough we would just back on track and i would find out that he has signed on to another and another, we worked through our problems and he told me i was the one he wanted he don't know why he did what he did and it all stopped we were back on track on track then we hit some money troubles so i moved away to work and clear our debt i came home as often as i could and one weekend i decided to surprise him he didn't know i was coming home we had a wonderful evening and the next day my world was shattered my husband raped me i didn't know what to do so i went to my friends for help they were brilliant but the next day they all accused me of lying about it and as i had time to think about it i decided the best thing was to let them beleave it was a lie i am still with my husband 8 months after the rape and i have no friends as they all turned their backs on and more money troubles then i would like but i just don't know what to do anymore i love him but at the same time a part of me just wants everyone to know the truth, i also know i want to protect him because if hes friends knew what has happened they will kill him so i guess i just need to carry on as normal and pretend that my life is great.