boss sucks. life sucks. bf is emotional and only cares about his own feelings and his family.
my work life sucks. my own life sucks. i may be better than a lot of people but i know i am worse than a lot of ppl too.
yeah. i may loook happy but ppl like to step on my feelings and my shoulder and put words in my mouth or try to control my life.
i hate that when ppl try to control my life.
why sigh sigh sigh???????????????????????????????????????
what about my feeling? i am doing what i can....at work or at home or about the relationship. but what do i get back? ppl asking for more.....
keep asking for more.
ignored my feelings. am i the non-vip? transparent?
i don't need to be the vip but i don't like to be treated as the door mat either.
i am not the door mat. i don't know if i am making the right decisions at all now.
i don't see the end of the tunnel. ppl around me sucks and they think i did too much.
okay maybe from now on i should shut up and be careless like them.
i can do that too............i should. why care when ppl think that i am nosy or talk too much. boss, family, bf, future in-laws. i don't want to care. i am never the one who makes the decision so y blame it on me? talk to the son......not me.
i feel sad......frustrated. very frustrated but yet have no one to talk to.
i can't tell this to anyone.....i can't coz ppl will treat me more like a door mat. if i say that my soon to be husband is now treating me like this....cold and hot.....! god....i want to give up. so sad that no one can help me. | |
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it sounds to me, like you could use a good therapist. All this pent up anger at not being heard, understood, ignored. Well it's going to come to a head, if you don't find a way to vent (other than on here). Although this site is beneficial, talking about your frustrations with a professional is like money in the bank. They will be able to give you advice on how to deal with the pressures and stress you are experiencing. It is not YOUR responsibility in life to make EVERYONE ELSE happy. You are a VIP sister! And when no one acknowledges your needs and wants, it is FRUSTRATING! Take some time for YOU! The people in your life need to know that as much as a pillar of "stability" that you appear to be, inside, you are feeling used, abused, and taken advantage of!
Time for a change. Make things happen, that will give you time for yourself, and the things that you enjoy. Delegate, let go of some of your responsibilities! Have someone else do something for you for a change!
And most importantly, find an outlet where you can vent and release your vexations! Otherwise, they'll eat you alive-
Be strong!
Sister Cursed
I thought no body would care. I was just too frustrated last night that I typed without explaining what's going on. Although I have no idea who you are and where you are, at least I know there is one person out there who was willingly to spend time reading and commenting properly. You made me cry (feeling touched). Thanks!
Take care dear- and everything will work out....
Cursed
If anyone wants to email me, feel free, I hate being lonely too-
From your soon to be ex husband depart magically into the anus, he will bury it deep and then withdraw mud from the stinkpit. From there be wise, and do not let the meatwhistle pound further into the frontbutt.
Your decisions are hot and cold, so you should give up, but do not become like a hanging piece of meat, because I understand that hurts a little, and you choke a lot. Chickens are for choking, not you, even if you are a turd burgling shitbeast.
I bear this weight of you, in order to more fully punch you so hard that in the future you endeavor to post in not such a crazy motherfucker way, so that it can be read by all, and more fully ridiculed.
Peace from GOd
If you want us to try to understand why does your life suck, you really need to do a better job at expressing the message. The power of complete sentences and punctuation is clearly being underestimated here. And people are right when they say you talk too much.
Let's try to take things one by one.
"Boss sucks": well, they are supposed to, that is part of their job.
"Life sucks": if you are trying to explain why does X happen, simply claiming that it does happen is not helpful. There is a circularity problem, you see?
"Bf is emotional": I'm sure if bf was not emotional, you would be complaining. And "cold and hot" can be fun sometimes.
"Bf only cares about his own feelings and his family": dump him, problem solved. Or marry him, and turn to be his family. I would go with first option, but that is just me.
"My work life sucks": this point relates back to unfortunate boss sucking, discussed above.
"My own life sucks": see the circularity issue again? Plus, why adding that it is your own life? Who else could it be? Is the term "own" used for allowing an easier distinction with the work life? If so, is the work life not yours as well? Food for thought...
"i may be better than a lot of people but i know i am worse than a lot of ppl too": this is the most intriguing point and I will take my time here. I would like to welcome you to the amazing world of statistics. You might have heard about it before, the concept of median. In the distribution of people, you fall in the middle. Do not worry though, it could be worse. We have two fine examples above: Sister Cursed is obviously on the 99% percentile of kindness (and maybe boredom to exhaustion) and Refined Truth is on the 1% percentile of free spirit (let's call it that). The fact that they are probably the same person should not confuse you.
"why sigh sigh sigh???????????????????????????????????????": here, my main comment would be just get a grip on yourself.
Fast forward to the end: "i want to give up". Give up on what? On your life? On someone else's? On door mats? It was not clear from your message.
Finally my point is the following: if you cannot explain clearly what is going on to make life suck so bad, probably it doesn't. It is just life, learn to deal with it. Which brings me to your last point "no one can help me. You are wrong, I just did. No need to thank me.
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