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simply said

Posted by jessa lynn at March 30, 2010
Tags: General  2010 March

Ok, here is my list...

* almost 30, nothing to show for it
* still have acne
* have bad teeth that I cannot afford to fix
* work as a telemarketer
* car is from the 90s
* family doesn't talk to me,did nothing to deserve this. They are too busy with their great lives and important jobs
* apartment smells like curry
* no friends
Yep.... it sucks!


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By anonymous at 30,Mar,10 23:48

haha this funny haha sucker haha dont smoke build a bridge and get over it hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha idiot

By anonymous at 30,Mar,10 23:48

haha this funny haha sucker haha dont smoke build a bridge and get over it hahaha

By anonymous at 31,Mar,10 12:07

yeah, u sound like a big loser!!!!! Moron

By anonymous at 31,Mar,10 21:51

The REAL losers are those who fail to show any sympathy but would rather make a person feel worse than they already are and would rather take delight for someone's misery. I have never realized how many losers are present in the world until I met this website. obviously, some people failed home training and their mothers were on crack the whole time. It really pisses me off when people come for help but all they get are a bunch of laughs in their faces. Look dude, youíre 30 years old, you are STILL young and you have plenty of time to change your life. Everybody has acne. its part of being a human being. so freaken what if your car is from the 90s, you think having a better car defines who you are? at least you have something that's going to carry your behind to work. at least youíre not riding the city bus or catching a cab. you have your own ride. If you can't afford to get your teeth fixed, try finding a different insurance company who will take care of it. or put aside the activities that arenít really important and USE that time to work overtime or get a little side job and save up.

Here, take a look at this. someone posted this and it makes alot of sense. I can only hope that it will help you.

Thereís really no reason you should hate your life. Many people give excuses as to why they do. Here are 12 common reasons. If you given these excuses then you need to quickly readjust your thinking. When you do, youíll quickly come to enjoy your life.

1. Your parents ruined your life

Many people complain that their parents raised them wrong, set them up for failure, or didnít start a college fund for them. If you can recognize these shortcomings, the you can change the future.

2. You have no money

This is probably the worst excuse. If money is the main reason for your happiness then you will never be happy. Money should not make you enjoy your life or hate it.

3. Your job sucks

If it sucks so much then quit and move on. A bad job should give you motivation to chase your dreams and strive for something better.

4. You have no time

If you have no time to do what you want then you must be letting unimportant tasks get the best of you. Thereís many times when we think something is important or urgent, but in reality it isnít. Recognize when you do this and change your focus to what you desire. Eliminate the unnecessary things that we all have and instantly youíll have more time.

5. You have no one

Many times peopleís depression and reason for hating life is because they feel alone. Itís one of Maslowís Hierarchy of Needs. Everyone must feel that they are wanted and have friends. When you donít feel like you have anyone, you become depressed. But being depressed isnít going to do any better, itís going to chase people further away.

6. Youíre a failure

People say theyíre failures when they donít accomplish something. But they always forget to recall or recognize the successes theyíve had in the past. You will never be a failure as long as you continue. And you never fail to learn from failure. Failure is great.

7. Youíve done nothing with your life

If youíve done nothing productive with your life then get going! Start now or start tomorrow. Itís never too late or too early.

8. Youíre bored

If youíre bored with your job and life, then you arenít challenging yourself enough. Youíve settled with mediocrity. Start dreaming. Write down your dreams and goals, and how you can achieve them. Your life will become exciting in no time.

9. Youíre stuck

Many people hate their lives because they feel like theyíre getting no where fast. Whether it be debt and bills or a bad job, you can begin to plan your escape right now. Create a plan with hundreds of little steps and take at least one step everyday. Once you do so youíre becoming unstuck and before you know it youíve escaped.

10. You let others get to you

You may hate your life because you listen too much to others. Donít listen to naysayers and negative opinions. Donít let others make you hate your life. Most of the time those who make you feel that way, hate their own lives.

11. Youíve stopped yourself

Many of those who hate their lives, do so because they didnít follow through with their dreams. YOU are the most important factor to YOUR joy and happiness.

12. Youíre too negative

If you hate your life then youíre too negative. Change your attitude and youíll enjoy your life.
By anonymous at 01,Apr,10 00:17

You are a losser dont judge people if you put things on the internet people will laugh if it was real ask some one for help go to church ask some one there for help.
By anonymous at 01,Apr,10 01:05

Whether it is real or not, i'm willing to take that chance. so no i'm not a loser. And what's strange is the people who act like cold-hearted idiots are getting off easily but when its someone like me and other who are actually here to help, WE'RE called losers. isnt that strange?

I'm not a loser, i'm someone who's willing to help. not everybody feels comfortable with going to a church and not everyone believes in it. Sure, things on the internet may not be the truth, but since people are HERE and are seeking help, WHY not help them?
By anonymous at 01,Apr,10 04:40

when you try then people laugh at what you say. we all have problems it what you do about that makes a differents for a start get a job. I have lots off problems first of i'm a New Zealander I have ADD dont get on with people I have gased my self in my car didnt work tho I found out the only one who can change me is me Like saying goes if you always do what you have always done you will always get what you have always got wake up and smell the coffee. So I did I got a job at age 22 I bought my first house I got my truck licance even tho every one said i will never be anything. so yes God does help just ask and will be given un to him.
By anonymous at 01,Apr,10 08:44

If you believe in God so much, then you should also believe that he puts certain people in others path to BE helped. I understand what your'e saying about looking weird by going full and out and to help somone who may be faking. However, we have NO way of knowing that. We do NOT only need God but we need each other too. ANd i believe ONE of the ways to carrying out his will is by helping others. I know what its like to be down and feel like there's nothing to look forward to or feel stuck, so i do the best i can in return.
By anonymous at 01,Apr,10 12:24

It is easyer to help someone when you see them face to face. I work with youth so I have some idea I help youth now Because I was a troubled youth I felt the world was aganst me but its lyes satan makes us think by the way i'm not even 30 ether so I'm probbly the same age as this person
By anonymous at 01,Apr,10 12:40

02,Apr,10 05:40
that is the time I wrote it
By anonymous at 01,Apr,10 13:56

so becuase i'm not face to face, i shouldnt help at all? Becuase its the internet and we have no way of knowing if its true or not, i shouldnt help at all? Let me ask you a question then, WHY are YOU here, then?
By anonymous at 01,Apr,10 23:54

Because I will help If they want I use skype and webcam I am easy the just need to give more info if the want help most people just type things here for fun because when you try to help them they just mock ya as if I am stupid.
By anonymous at 02,Apr,10 04:56

The Dash
I read of a man who stood to speak
at the funeral of a friend.
referred to the dates on her tombstone
from beginning to the end.
He noted that first came her date of birth
and spoke the following date with tears,
but he said what mattered most of all
was the dash between those years.
For that dash represents all the time
that she spent alive on earth.
and now only those who loved her
knew what that little line was worth.
For it matters not. how much we own:
the cars. the house. the cash.
what matters most is how we lived and loved
how we spend our dash.
So think about this long and hard
are there things you'd like to change.
for you never know how much time is left
that can still be rearranged.
If we could just slow down enough
to consider what's true and real.
And always try to understand
the way other people feel.
Be less quick to anger.
And show appreciation more,
and love the people in our lives
like we've never loved before.
If we treat each other with respect
and more often wear a smile,
remembering that this special dash
might only last a little while.
So. when your eulogy's being read
with your life's actions to rehash,
would you be proud of the things they say
about how you spend your dash?

By Guide Dog at 05,Apr,10 19:54

I don't have advice for more than the acne, and it's a really cheap and fast one. Wash your face with a normal soap-piece each morning and evening, but just a little. I'll try to explain how little: Wet your hands, and soap them in as if you were about to wash them. Wash carefully off most of the soap until there is just so little that you only just notice the soap sliding between your hands, and wash your face with that tiny amount and lots of water afterwards. (That is to speed up the process a little, safest advice is just water twice a day.) Results comes slow....

Should take the acne and self-esteem. (Had acne until I was 28 myself, know what it feels like.)

By jessa lynn at 07,Apr,10 00:35

Thanks all for the good advice. I like to come on here and vent sometimes and read the stories. Sometimes we just get to a point where we feel lost and hopeless. I know it is up to me to change it, but sometimes it seems like too much is going wrong! But I will march forward none the less. Take care all ;)

By anonymous at 30,Aug,10 23:47

Hey. Nothing wrong with curry, dude. : )

By anonymous at 24,Jul,11 00:56

this is not so funny

By take a look at it! at 23,Oct,13 19:11

nof1K3 I truly appreciate this post.Thanks Again. Will read on...

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